missing is still loving ??

@unuzzz (1274)
Indonesia
December 1, 2007 10:19am CST
i still miss the person i dunno why, but i still have this feeling i commit to end everything i have for her but today we go out together, with his new boy actually it doesn't hurt me, but i feel something was not right here i can feel a little loneliness, empty and empty, huhh what is going on with me ?? do i still have a feeling with her ?? this feeling really sucks.. !!
5 responses
@gr8life (6253)
• Malaysia
3 Dec 07
Hello unuzzz, Sometimes, when you love someone, it is very hard to forget every single thing about her. Even if you already separated, the pain that you feel when you see her with some one else is hard to explain. It is like you are losing something in your life though you have to admit the fact that she is no longer yours. Time will help you to ease the pain, the feeling and the memories. Just be patient and accept the fact that you and her are no longer in a serious relationship and keep on the friendship if you can...
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@unuzzz (1274)
• Indonesia
4 Dec 07
hi gr8life thanks for the attention time is really my answer ^^ i'm trying to forget her and everything connected with her some people said that this is not the best way by throwing away everything about her but i'm afraid i'll get stuck and cannot forget her if i keep everything thanks anyway for your attention gr8life have a nice day..
• India
3 Dec 07
My Dear Friend, Here are a few lines for you.... This poetry is translated from Korean When you are together with her, you pretend to ignore her. But when she is not around, you might look around to find her. At that moment, you are in love. Although there is someone else who always makes you laugh, your eyes and attention might go only to her. Then, you are in love with her. Although she was supposed to have called you long back, to let you know of her safe arrival, your phone is quiet. You are desperately waiting for the call! At that moment, you are in love with her. If you are much more excited for one short e-mail from her than other many long e-mails, you are in love with her. When you find yourself as one who cannot erase all the messages in your answering machine because of one message from her, you are in love. When you get a couple of free movie tickets, you would not hesitate to think of her. Then, you are in love. You keep telling yourself, "She is just a friend", but you realize that you can not avoid her special attraction. At that moment, you are in love with her. While you are reading this mail, if someone appears in your mind, then u are in love with her. Cheers buddy!!!
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@unuzzz (1274)
• Indonesia
4 Dec 07
hi rocking_dziahs reading the poetry just kept me remind of her but thanks, this really helped me to realize my feeling thanks rocking_dziahs have a nice day..
@lucky_witch (2713)
• Philippines
2 Dec 07
maybe it's no longer love my friend. I believe that its already you are just missing the part of her that you have let go when you end your commitment with her. Sometimes we cant let go fully because we have in our heart a great longing of the love that was once there. But that longing is not enough to make you feel that you are still in love.
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@unuzzz (1274)
• Indonesia
4 Dec 07
hi lucky_witch thanks a lot, your words really fits me right now i guess i really need to move on right ?? too much in this condition will make me stuck ^^ thanks for the attention lucky_witch have a nice day
@subha12 (18462)
• India
2 Dec 07
as you miss the person. it can be taken for granted that you still love her. the feeling of loneliness in absence of her, makes you miss her more. May be it is called love.
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@unuzzz (1274)
• Indonesia
4 Dec 07
hi subha12 love ?? wow, i never thought that what i feel is love hehee.. then this is bigger than i thought ^^ thanks, but i think i need to move on, searching for another love.. hehee ^^ thanks for the attention subha12 have a nice day
@tryxiness (4549)
• Philippines
1 Dec 07
You still have feelings for the person, I guess, the feeling of emptiness somehow shows that at the back of your mind you still hope that you guys could still be together. But hey, at least you are one step ahead to I guess acceptance.I really hope you're setill ok. :P
@unuzzz (1274)
• Indonesia
4 Dec 07
hi tryxiness thanks.. i've been through this once, and i'm sure i'm going through this again.. hehee just this time is much harder than the past one we've been really close but hey, what can i say.. hahaa thanks for the attention tryxiness have a nice day