When a Girl starts a fight.

/facepalm Sometimes there's a reason for her starting the fight other times its something nuts, misunderstood or whatever is going on. Or, there is a need to be right and that is also a factor of why the fight is going on. I also say no one should be saying "sorry" unless they actually did something wrong. I've noticed some girls expect "sorry" from the guy for things that aren't the guys fault or things that were her fault in the first place hence the cause of some on the spot fights, shaming moments (yelling, vicious insults, crying) I just think people should communicate and try to resolve their differences like adults. But then again, looking at the current situation, I might be asking a bit much from some people. Sigh... Oh and I've been done with MTV for plenty of years. If anyone needs to say "sorry" here, its them. -_-

hi Dear well i wont say its 100% correct but its not 100% right as well.(no offense to girl pls) Sure when there are arguments( i dont want to call it fight as its mostly exchange of words not physical fight , wink) between boy and girls, some times girls are right and they are angry coz of some valid reason. but to my experience after sudden period of time girls may start argument with out any reason and it might be that they get bored with normal love routine and want to change it a bit. they just looking for anything so they can outburst their frustration its my observation and experrience. No Offense to girls Byee

I think girls do fight for a reason.The main drawback is that the reason is in their mind and do not show it during fight & It seems they are fighting for no reason. Boys are very straight_forward and they just show off their minds very easily.

i believe that women start fights for lots of different reasons. women and men are unique is some special ways and most times things that would bother a woman a guy would just ignore it. i believe that women are more emotional creatures than men and they aren't afraid to express their feelings. so you would find a woman taking actions when she feels that her feelings are in jeopardy while a man would just keep it inside.

Hi stella, I think girl starts a fight and finish it with tears.usualy girls starts a fight when she was ignored or her views are not give any importance. In fact she didnot wants to win the fight but just try to give more weightage to her thought. Once she starts than the fight will end on sorry with tears only.

Girls only start fights because guys give them reason to. I dnt believe they are just looking for attention, anytime when i start a fight with my bf it's because he's done something wrong. I don't need attention in the form of fighting lol

hi stella! well, i have the tendencies, to be honest with you...hahaha i have started so many fights with my then boyfriend and now my husband, which were actually based on nonsense. i just want him comforting me. and when he doesn't, i demand that he say sorry for whatever happened in the first place. if he doesn't, then the fight continues. this usually happens before i get my period. hehehe sigh...i know it's rotten, but i dunno why i do that to him. right now, i try to be really patient. lol

Good, nice. Girl starts fight against the lies in the eyes of the beholder only.

"I just don't like a "sorry" unless the guy is really sorry." LOL even then I dont wanna hear it....at least not until I'm bloody well good and ready for the fight to be over that is...Once I've got it out of my system THEN say you're sorry and you'd better make me believe it or we'll be jumping into round two right away LOL.. as for the guys theory that "when a girl starts a fight then the guy should only listen..." oh HELL NO!! That only makes me even MORE angry and thats never a pretty thing..

Yeah, sometimes, it does happen, but when you clearly hear what the girl want to say and why she is furious, then only will one understand the true feelings of that girl and even if its just for some love and affection and some attention, then you must be sorry that you didn't give her much of your love and attention, and she had to cry for it. A girl is not like so stupid to bother her boyfriend or lover, just for nothing, so always one must respect the words and the emotions, cause if she is saying it then they really mean something!! Take Care May GOD Bless YOU

I agree with you pal. I just don't want my man to apologize just for the sake of it. I wanted him to mean it that he's indeed sorry for the situation not just to satisfy me hearing it. ;)

I don't think that this issue should be treated in a generalized manner because not all people act and think in the same manner. I am a female but I hardly start a fight and I most certainly hardly cry. I only put up a big fight if I do have a reason for doing so. (You can ask my boyfriend about that). This is not a biased perception of myself; its the truth. I don't fight a lot with my boyfriend because I have no reason for doing so. Arguments come often but it gets resolved right away. It is however, nice to fight sometimes as it brings you a renewed closeness. Just make sure you have enough reason for doing so. LOL!

Nobody should start a fight just for the sake of it. Some people like argueing and don't care that the other party might not enjoy it. It should be a discussion between to people that are in a relationship. I fight won't help working out this relationship. We need to discuss, not to fitht.

i think most of the time girl always start it...in my experience they always start things when they are jealous,when they wanted some attention or even when they wanted to make love.but they have this strategy that they always do...and most of the time they start it with a question and ends it with punctuation mark....

I can't speak for all women, but I think when I start a fight it is because I have something on my mind that I just can't come out and say. I may not even realize it, so I start acting a little more antsy than usual, get a little snappy, then the fight is on. Through the course of the aguement I see what it is that is really bothering me. I think this is pretty common for women, but maybe I'm wrong. Also, I think women don't have as much physical opportunity to release stress as men do, so it builds up until it comes out in a fight.