Trust {Need help please}

@milolamb (138)
Australia
December 9, 2007 5:55am CST
See if you have a friend right and you and her have been friends for a while. She suddenly puts you aside for her NEW boyfriend and well you see that he is unfit and you have seen what he has done because he is your friend. Do you tell her his flaws and make her hate you or let her get hurt. Im really worried for her benefit. ~*Cream*~
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
9 Dec 07
I don't think it would matter what you say when someone really likes someone they don't want to listen this is where they say love is blind, all you can do is say to her is to be careful and let her know you will always be there, everyone must make their own mistakes in life as this is a part of life.
@milolamb (138)
• Australia
10 Dec 07
But still she is my besti and I've seen her get hurt. She saw her boyfriend cheat on her yet she doesn't believe it. I think she can get hurt and I shouldn't care.
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
10 Dec 07
Oh never stop caring and always be there for her, a good friend is always there but if she loves him there is nothing you can say that will make her stop.....you are a good friend to be so worried...
@milolamb (138)
• Australia
10 Dec 07
Yeh I guess your right, but still if she gets hurt what do I do?
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
11 Dec 07
Your story is a common one I've heard (at least the first parts of it). I would just tell her the truth, its her choice whether to listen or not, or if she'll even act on it or not. If she doesn't listen to you, there is pretty much nothing you can do after that (unless you want to strain things more). Its sad, but this happens a lot of the time. Oh and if you do give the advice not to see this person and she doesn't listen, you shouldn't have to listen to her complain about him as a boyfriend. That's something you should at least establish.
@milolamb (138)
• Australia
15 Dec 07
Thats true, but it hurts. As she does see evidence of it happening and all she is, is upset...