Lost my Love!!
By makamania20
@makamania20 (274)
India
December 10, 2007 7:15am CST
friends me Indian and i met a girl from Japan who lives in Tokyo,we had affairs for six months and suddenly she stop calling me now,she is elder than me working as nurse !! me still college going to be finished soon! I called up her too but she is not responding !! one she pick up and reply dnt call her again!! what can i do !! i really love her'she too do !! but why she is turning i dnt understand!!May the our distance guys? Pliz give me some advise should hope to get her? I told my family too about her!!!now feeling bad to loose her!!
4 responses
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
10 Dec 07
I don't know much you can do about it since you live so far. It's not like you can go and talk to her face to face. The only thing you can do is try to call or email her and try to get in touch some kind of way. It's bad on her part that she didn't have the guts to tell you she didn't want to contact you anymore. Maybe she's really busy. You've done what you can. In time you will move on but yeah it sucks that you don't have a reason. I hope eventually she will have the guts to let you know what happened
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@makamania20 (274)
• India
10 Dec 07
thanks your valueble suggestion !! me calling her too!! bit she said it hurts!! why i dnt know really!!
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
10 Dec 07
There's probably a reason why. Find a way to get in touch with her, like email. It's not fair for her to just blow you off without explaining.
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@fanji008 (775)
• China
10 Dec 07
Hi,there! I don't know what happened to you guys.If there's no problem of the relationship but she turned this way in a sudden,then you'd better contact her and set a time to talk.Maybe there's sth wrong with her at her place like her family don't agree etc.Anyway,since you don't know the reason,you'd better communicate with her to find it out.Only when you know everything clearly,can you solve that properly.I always think talk helps.Hopefully you guys could be open to each other and settle the problems.Best wishes and good luck:)
@makamania20 (274)
• India
10 Dec 07
m really happy to see your opinion!! may be she is getting some problem at home!!n she is not telling me!! when i call her she says pliz dnt call! it hurts to her!! i dnt know really !!how? here m also hurting if she says like that!! thank you very much for wishing us!! hope to get her back at any cost!!
@cartoon4umaniacs (1648)
• United States
11 Dec 07
If you guys talk for 6 months on a relationship base and everything was going well then she wouldn't just up and leave unless something was going on between your relationship with her or that she must have some personal issue at home. The only thing you can do is call and email her...could it be that she might have found someone closer? I don't want to hurt you but the truth is sometimes people do that ...long distance relationship is really a pain in the you know what because I had one before. But the sad truth is that she is older than you and maybe she wants to get married already or who knows what but she being so far away from you it's hard to know and over the net too. It's really hard for you to do anything else...unless you have her address and then you might be able to suggest to her that you can fly over and see her face to face and ask her what happen to see if you can mend the relationship or help her out.......just my opinion....
