Heartache over Friendship

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I am confused with my recent experience, I was transferred to a new office which I like.Because I was very new I have no friends or acquaintances there. This girl kindly spoke to me and I kind of like her because she seem nice. She ask questions about me and I openly reply feeling she's sincere. Our friendship grew to months but I have to go to a new office again for a new job. After 6 months we were reunited as we both got transferred in the same office. I noticed she demands and feel she's using me to get what she wants. Then I noticed that she would wave and say hello to other officemates but once they are gone she would tell me negative things about private lives of these people. I started to get uncomfortable but did not know how to keep my distance. I have told her my personal problems before I noticed this behavior of her. Our closeness was cut off when I had to go to school for my graduate studies, the closeness we used to have was cut little by little because I have to do my job and study at the same time. She felt irritated whenever she ask me to take a break (Lunch) and I couldn't because I have to catch up on my work or school paper. She started making remarks, teasing me, just to make me angry perhaps... but I just smile or laugh at her antics. Thats when i noticed some officemates making comments about me, even making remarks like telling what they know about me... and that's what hurts me because I have lost a friend or perhaps true friendship in a workplace never really happens.