will you go on in a relationship even if its hurting you?

Hi vehaileairu, Life is full of adjustments.It is binding one on both husband and wife.If we can't adjust, It is difficult to run life. Those who do not understand this will get saperated in the name of 'divorce' and lead a miserable life. Putting their hands on the heart, can any one say that they are leading a life without adjusting themselves to any situation arised in their life,whether married,unmarried,divorced or individual. Relationships will flourish only when we understand the real meaning of adjustment.

well for me i will first try that this type of situation never ever comes in my life.i will try to resolve the issue in the beginning only when it statred its root.however if at all the problem grows and our differences and misunderstanding comes to a point where it really cannot be resolved then i will let this relation go.since it no point dragging a relation,since it that case its going to give pain to me as well as to him.and a relation out of pain can never ever surviive.someday or the other it has to ide so i will better like that we both set free to each toher and move ahead in life so that we can atleast live a normal life.well its true that marriage needs compromise from both the sides but i think its should be compromise and not just sacrifices.why do one needs ot sacrifice for marriage.i will not want to hurt my partner even if i walk out of this relation.

well, my wife and i are in the 7th year of marriage. we do argue with each other, do not talk to each for two to three days at times. but it is more than a year ago now. from then on we have no differences, thats due to her second pregnancy. but the arguments never went so far that we had to think about divorce. we just cant live separately.. perhaps that was the reason that the fights stopped at some stage.

Hi vehaileairu, any relationship is based primarily on commitment, respect , compromise, understanding and ofcourse on love. Differences of opinions, arguments, fights and bitter, swordy words all are part of it. What's more important is whether we go to bed huging and forgetting it or not. Tomorrow is always a new day - that's what I believe. When the earnest commitment and respect is not there, I feel, love will fade in due course or there wasn't any at all. It was infatuation. A relationship is nurtured on mutual interactions and only one person cannot carry it all through life. So, if one feels a genuine vibe is missing from the counter part, it's always better to move on. Love has to be felt from both the sides, isn't it? it might hurt, it might kill, but we should let go and move on. Who knows someone, somewhere is waiting eagerly. He/she should not miss out on love. smiles...

I lived that one, was married 20 years with 3 kids and couldn't stand the arguing anymore.....it ended up that our differences were so great that if I would have stayed in that relationship, we would have ended up killing each other. My advice? if there are small problems in the beginnning that aren't being resolved....there will only be more and they will only get bigger.

I think it is better to let him go.Because love to a two-persons' affair.If one of them feel bad,there should be an end.But it isn't that simple always.Sometime it really hard for one to give up,especially for girls.So I believe love is the most complicated feeling all over the world.We have to try ,if it doesn't help out,give up.Hope you will become some kind of humnious.

As per society, its not OK. But if you are satisfied and have no fear of family or kids or society, all the best!

It depends i guess ... if you've already tried to fix it and its beyond repairable just leave it .. you can't spend the rest of your life trying to fix something that can't be fixed. you are losing out on time where you could be happy and so could ur spouse. so if its not working and you think u cant fix it i think it would be better for you to leave the relationship for a little while

Well I always have to look out for me so I would walk out of that relatioonship. Lets face it though, its not going anywhere and you will only make an already bad situation worst. So I would leave.

yes because i love him.If i dont I wont