What are the same points for you and your spouse?
December 18, 2007 8:39am CST
I have many diffience from my husband. Such as he is not very interested in eating pizza, but I love it. He likes fat meats but I don't like it. Our favorite music types are different, too. However, we do have something in common. We are not fetishistic and we believe in science. And we all love computer.
1 Jan 08
Both my hubby and I are big fans of coffee and green tea as well. We usually take hot coffee in the morning or evening. Each of us likes to take a mug of hot green tea an hour before going to bed. We like listening light and sentimental music during our leisure. I like outdoor games like swimming and mountain hiking whereas my hubby prefers to play table tennis indoor.
31 Dec 07
Hello dear youless. My wife and I have something in common in our interests and hobbies. They can be listed as follows: Common hobbies: 1. surfing on the Internet. 2. going shopping together in the downtown area and supermarkets. 3. enjoying asking for each other's opinion before making a decision. Different hobbies: 1. I have a more wide taste to different kinds of music while my honey loves only pop music. 2. I am more talkative and she is more quiet. 3. I am a last-minute man while she is always in a hurry to finish doing things beforehand, which is her merit and my shortcoming. Anyway there are more than what is listed. Thank you very much for your discussion, my dear youless.
19 Dec 07
i think for every single thing that we have in common - there is just another thing that makes us opposites. but i guess the similarities were what drawn us to each other in the first place, right? we love music - love to KARAOKE, we love to go bowling, we like the same genre of movies, we luv to eat.. but there are some things which i luv but he hates - cheese, soymilk, milk... i am more outgoing, i can start a conversation with someone i just meet for the first time, my husband would only go to parties where he knows everyone. i am also very outspoken, i dare to say what i displeases me... my husband would just smile politely and not 'start any trouble'... i would say i am fairly good at artwork - my husband is not... (glad my children take after me on that one.. LOL..) the longer we are married - i think the list will grow longer ??... =P dont you agree - opposites attract, actually? we need the balance - you can fight 'fire with fire'... so it's usually 'fire and water' - the opposites. peace !
18 Dec 07
Differences in opinion are always there in plenty and one cannot list it out,but what is important is, each one's feelings are highly respected and my wife is given full freedom to do what she wants and vice versa. This is applicable to most of the activities in our life. Even more important is none of us exhibit our ego that Ishould win or I should not allow her to win. Since this is the way we live, there is hardly any clash of interest.
18 Dec 07
Me and my boyfriend has also great difference in intrests and other things as well. We don't like same music. He is much more into hard metal songs and I'm into melodious songs.He is much more into cleaning the rooms but I'm not into that. I must say that there are great difference in our likings. But these different increases much more intimacy. Like he likes eating delicious food and I like cooking. So, whenever he likes something to eat then I'm ready to cook and while I'm cooking he just cleans the room. I think these differences also helps alot in making our relationship better.