How to rekindle romantic feelings for marriend couples...?

@tombiz (2039)
December 24, 2007 8:10am CST
It is often said that romantic feeling reach its zenith just after and during the wedding period...after sometimes it just unfortunately fades away. The excitement is replaced by boredom. The wanting to be always with the person is slowly gone and the marriage is slowly eroding even to the point of dissolution. Wow, Ia m so sure this is never ever the intents of both parties when they decided to get married. For married couples who are still enjoying an exciting and growing relationships, please share some of your secrets on keeping the flame of romance in marriage alive and keeping the relationship always growing and mutually satisfying.
4 responses
@williamjisir (22903)
• China
29 Dec 07
Hello dear tombiz. I am a family man for more ten years, but I don't see anything exciting in our married life. It is just very ordinary like many faimlies are. But I feel very happy with my family. So it is with my wife. Thanks very much for your discussion.
• India
25 Dec 07
This happens because of hunt for wantings. Both wife and husband puts their effort in getting more private life though they have to live in the same 'HUT'. The secrecy in their lives remaining un-answered and is getting revealed by third persons. This is the reason a dramatic situation is arising between Husband and Wife resulting boredom.
• United States
25 Dec 07
everyone is different,so to make it easy the best thing to do is keep the lines of communication open. if you dont see each other that much then leave post it notes on the bathroom mirror with something as simple as saying i love you or how about a date. just because your married doesnt mean you have to act that way.
• India
24 Dec 07
Hi tombiz, Romantic feelings do not fades away even at the age of 70s.It is only the interest on the partner that play most important role in romance. If you make up your mind to have romance, you can have romance at any time and at any age. May be some people because of their pre occupied mental structures due to business,stress,tension and other problems may not have incline on romance.Otherwise romance is romance at any age as long as you think about it. Good Luck.