the ex-girlfriend

@ivzgrace (101)
Philippines
December 26, 2007 4:53am CST
to the ladies: is it alright for you to see and hear that your boyfriend or love one is hanging out with his peer group together with his previous girlfriend?
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8 responses
@VKXY62 (1605)
• Australia
26 Dec 07
Hi, it is certainly an awkward situation, been there several times myself. (in the reverse of couse, I'm a bloke). One intersting situation developed when one of my ex's boyfriends and I started going out without the girl, we would get into a terrible state or have a ball whether she was there or not, she couldn't figure it out at all. I didn't mind, I was just being agreeable and having fun, but the underlying awkward feeling is allways lurking around.
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@ivzgrace (101)
• Philippines
31 Dec 07
i think you're right... it really feels me awkward and i don't like it very much... i really hate it...
@Canteen (592)
• China
28 Dec 07
It depends on how they loved before. if they had been deeply in love, though maybe it seems that i care nothing at the appearance, inside i truely feel awfully bad.
@ivzgrace (101)
• Philippines
31 Dec 07
they're deeply inlove.. in fact they broke up for 3 times but now im not sure that they don't have anymore feelings deep inside their heart... the time we're been together with her ex-girlfriend makes me realized that their still a love that was kept in her heart but seems she just hid it...
@fianne (1057)
• United States
8 Jan 08
hello. well, it is ok as long as it is very clear that the feelings is out of the way. but i had an experience, my boyfriend's ex girlfriend wanted him to go out with her to sing in the jukebox, it was a good thing my boyfriend said no, and it will be a foul to my part because he doesnot want to hurt me.
@xtinelee (3371)
• Singapore
26 Dec 07
It would depend on how long ago we broke up.. but again, I think I wouldn't want to see my ex boyfriend ever, with anybody, or even alone. I feel that it would trigger alot of unwanted memories.. and I would really feel like wanting to hide somewhere.
@irene_27 (542)
• Philippines
26 Dec 07
it would depend on the situation. If they parted ways as good friends than it's just okay for me. but if i know that his ex still has feelings for him then it would be a big no no for me. I think it's really a matter of knowing the real score of how they ended up in separate ways.
• China
26 Dec 07
don't care it too much,maybe things are not like what you think of.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
26 Dec 07
No I don't think it is, you know I have learnt in life that in this situation it is mainly men who just don't take their girlfriends feelings into account but I have also learnt that when the tables are turned it is them that scream the loudest, your boyfriend would just hate you to be seening an ex-boyfriend...they are just so unthinking...
@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
26 Dec 07
how dare you ask such a question? i think you will be sorry if you live in kerea. hehe