Tell the truth and shame the devil-Have you loved someone Married or Engaged
By 1lear1
@1lear1 (21)
December 28, 2007 3:38am CST
Oh yes this draws out all kinds of emotions such as feelings of betrayal, heartache,I say heartache again,distrust,sadness,lost love, brief moments of bliss laced with longer moments of pain. Of course we can't forget the judgemental people who look down on those who have participated in relationships of this nature. People I'm not talking about the fly by night fling. I'm talking about genuine love for the person in the relationship-Its true you can't help who you like or love but when you know the situation and get caught up in it 95% of the time everybody loses. I will love a girl forever and ever because I truly know she is my soulmate but she was engaged to a decent guy and has a kid by him and will continue her plans to married even though she is greatly torn as I am. What's your story-how do you deal with the pain?
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3 responses
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
2 Jan 08
No. I have fallen for a lot of guys before marriage (but they were all my age and single) and my husband was not my first love. .,,,,but he certainly is my last love. After I met him, married him and been a mother to his son, to me there is no one who comes even closer to him in anything. To me he will always be the only one and I am thankful to the Lord for this.
@1lear1 (21)
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3 Jan 08
That is a wonderful thing. It warms the heart to hear and many people hope for this
type of love. I being a tiny bit cynical wonder what your age is. What you have is rare and it is even more rare to have it with age.
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@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
4 Jan 08
I am 35 now, we’re married for 10½ yrs now, our son is 8. We met in college, got married life has not been exactly rosy financially speaking. But, as you say, we have found the rarest thing on earth i.e. true love and we will stick together thru thick and thin. Its not that I have completely forgotten my past loves, but looking back, I don’t think I would have been so completely happy with anybody else. You can also keep your special love in your heart and move on with an open mind. When I was going thru my previous loves, each heartbreak felt like the world would crash and I would never find love again. But I moved on with an open mind and finally met my husband of today. I am sure that if you are not judgemental and can overlook the grudges, you too will find your love someday.
Best wishes for the new year and a new beginning.
@1lear1 (21)
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4 Jan 08
Beautifully spoken and role model material-Congratulations and it is so good to hear of something positive in this life.I am a true romantic and believe even if you are financially rich you can never be as rich emotionally without true love. If I had my choice between being rich or having true love-I choose love.
@SachseMom (448)
• United States
4 Jan 08
Before my husband there was a Dr that I worked with at a hospital here in Dalla that we talked all the time and had lunch together and got to be very close. I started to fall in love with him and he started to have feelings for me also. We never acted on them until one night we were talking and laughing and having a good time and he leaned in and kissed me! It was the best kiss of my life and I wanted him so bad after that, but he found out the next morning that his wife was expecting their first child and he and I decided that he loved his wife and that nothing was going to happen between us.
It broke my heart and it was hard to work with him everyday. A few months later his wife came up to the hospital in the ER because she was having bad stomach pains. She lost the baby and I saw her and held her hand and let her cry on my shoulder and I couldn't do anything with her husband after that, I couldn't so I quit and went to work at another hospital.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
28 Dec 07
It happens all the time my dear 1lear1-many married couples tend not to put on rings, and in this way they disguise their marrital statuses- they dont even say no to an advance, and most go all the way in their relationship only to declare too late that they are married-consequently a lot of damage will have been done! Yes the truth is it goes on -married people flirt!
