parasite husband

Philippines
December 28, 2007 11:16pm CST
i'm so tired and so stressed just by looking at my husband lying in bed all day playing playstation. i've already told him that he is such a parasite. he kept on asking his mother and sister for money. i don't know what to do any more but i feel that i can no longer live with him. its just that i was just thinking of the kids. oh pls! can anybody give me some good advice!
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• United States
30 Dec 07
Does your husband work? Or does he really sit around and play playstation all day? If hes working and actually not playing all day then maybe you should ease up some. If thats not the case i would have a good talk with him. Tell him if he doesnt quit playing so much that you will leave him. He definitely needs to be helping you around the house and with the kids.
@psyche49f (2514)
• Philippines
29 Dec 07
I guess the condition to keep your family intact is for him to look for a job or start his own business, or else. You should give him an ultimatum and really mean it. Housebands are common these days, but they are no longer funny nor cute. He should understand that in order to keep a family, he should also contribute something from his own sweat, instead of relying from charities from his own family. The decision is now in your hands...and you said it....you are tired and sick of your husband being a bum, being a parasite and being good-for-nothing. If his male ego does not bother him, then I guess you really have to make a drastic decision to send him a painful wake up call...