Am I obsessed?

India
January 2, 2008 12:15am CST
Eversince I have found my love of life I do not like talking to anyother girl. I like to spend more of my time in my girlfriends company. I keep worrying about her most of the time and like to do things for her.Am I obsessed or is this natural in the relationship?
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@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
4 Jan 08
You are in love and it is natural for you to wnat to be around the one you love. You see your love for her has blocked everyone (would be girlfriends) and you want to give her your attention and time. Nothing is wrong with that. I do hope that things work out well for you both.
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• India
4 Jan 08
Hi sharon, You mean to say that I am more careful for my girlfriend and ignoring rest..Well I think it is really natural to get involved in someone. You are right that I wanna to give time for her ie. maximum satisfaction to her. Anyway thanks for responding to the discussion and have a nice day.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
3 Jan 08
i think its very much natural in love. it is nothing unusual about it.when you love somebody, you seem to think of that person, care for that person only. its natural and enjoy this,
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
2 Jan 08
No you are not obsessed , not yet anyway.It sounds like a normal relationship and that you like her very much and may be in love with her. In a relationship you often want to spend as much time with that person as possible, that sounds normal to me.You are not wanting to talk to other girls because your mind is on this girl..You do worry about someone you care for and you do like to do things for them..If you should start acting weird like you have to stalk her, watch her or question all she does and do not give her one drop of freedom, then you might be obsessed, but so far it sounds normal..
• India
2 Jan 08
Hi saurabh1234567, I think you are defenitely obesseed.Your mind is preoccupied with your girlfriend. It is not natural to have your mind totally preoccupied with your girlfiend and you are not thinking about anything else except to be with your girlfriend always.Purticularly always worrying about her is not good. I think you are still not confident on your relationship with her or you may be doubting her integrity.If you have strong relationship with her and if it is visa verse, you will not obessed. Be sure about her love with you. Good Luck.
@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
2 Jan 08
I think it is natural for you to feel and behave that way. I have been there and am this there today being the fifth year. I met my fiancee five years ago, we are still going strong though most of our friends dont talk to us any more. We have made new friends who knows both of us. Its is a wonderful feeling to be with the love of your life. You can not have enough of each other. Keep the flame burning and dont change with time. Good luck.
• China
2 Jan 08
I think it's naural in a short time when someone in a relationship.
@babykeka80 (2084)
• United States
2 Jan 08
This is natural. How long have you guys been together if you dont mind me asking? Just try not to smother her. Sometimes its great to spend time with each other but she has to have a little time for herself too. I wouldnt say your obsessed though. I think we all go through that when we find someone we are really interested in. It will simmer down in time. Good luck.