have you felt this?

@rosema (1145)
Philippines
January 2, 2008 1:53pm CST
Do you feel sometimes, that you have to try not to care no matter how much you do. because sometimes, you jsut mean nothing to someone who means everything to you?
3 responses
@babymar (361)
• Philippines
3 Jan 08
yes, there was this guy that i used to love for years but i don't feel that he loves me too, he says he loves me and that he want to spend his lifetime with me, but that's just his words...coz he never let me feel it and in fact, he disappears for no reason at all....and come back when i already have a boyfriend, to say that he still wants me and that he still want to keep his promise...but how could it be? i already have a boyfriend which i am sure loves me so much...unlike him that always disappear when i need him....and so i tried to forget him but i couldn't, i erased all his numbers and don't text or call him, but he still remains in my heart....
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@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
9 Jan 08
Hi babymar, move on with your life, stay with the person whom you know that really loves you. dont waste your time to a person like your first 1, i think he dont love you.
@babymar (361)
• Philippines
10 Jan 08
thanks for the advice, i have decided to stick to the one who really loves me.
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@oliverdt (1959)
• Philippines
3 Jan 08
Nope, sometimes we need also to understand the person we care, cuz sometimes they are not in the mode to chat with us. Check my blog: http://oliverdt.blogspot.com
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@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
9 Jan 08
Hi oliverdt, i think you are really an understanding person, lol. thanks for sharing your opinion.
@Uroborus (910)
• Canada
2 Jan 08
If you care about someone you do things for them because of it. If they continually reject you then you have to start considering the possibility that this person is not the one for you. Its ok to keep trying for a while, but if they don't return the caring for an extended period of time, your caring starts to become self-loathing.
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@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
9 Jan 08
Hi, if we care for someone, we do things for them even though they ignore it. but sometimes we also fed up of doing that specially when we see that it mean nothing to them. thanks for sharing your opinion.