Immature stupidity and a whole lot of overkill..
By Ravenladyj
@Ravenladyj (22904)
United States
January 3, 2008 5:04am CST
So as many of you know I'm all for having fun, joking around, being cheeky etc etc but holy hell...Am I the only one who is SO bored with certain members arrogant, childish, over the top stupidity?
Yea having a laugh is a great thing..hell have tons of them but seriously...like I say to my 14 yr/old KNOW WHEN ENOUGH IS ENOUGH...cause after 4 or 5 times its just NOT funny anymore! Add to that when said person walks the line between cheeky and downright rude I personally find it beyond annoying..Avoid and ignore is the key without a doubt but ppl like that whether online or off line just irritate the bloody hell out of me!
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9 responses
@janisspaggiari59 (656)
• United States
4 Jan 08
Just ignoring is the best way to handle a person like that.
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
4 Jan 08
That is true I don't let people stress me out, I ignore too! why get stressed out. smile and keep on going. welcome to Mylot!
@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
3 Jan 08
Well I can think of one person in particular person making me feel that exact way. It was amusing to read at first but the a line was crossed. I really don't understand why people like that just continue when no one is really laughing with them any more and very few are even laughing at them. I agree that avoid and ignore is the key but it's just so hard sometimes when they really get under your skin about something.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
3 Jan 08
if you are talking about someone here I think we are on the same page ;-) though I did miss the crossed line. I think I was reading after it was deleted....
Sad to say I know ppl like that in real life, or at least use to...now I dont give them the time of day..
@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
4 Jan 08
The crossed line occurred on jeffery's response and it has been deleted. If you've read that person's latest discussion though things are much clearer as to his motive.
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
4 Jan 08
Hi Ravenlady, Happy New Year to you! did someone affect you? sounds like it. don't worry aboutr it, this is just a talk forum.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
4 Jan 08
Hey marcia..Happy New Yr to you too :-) No no I've not been affected by it...I was just wondering how others feel about ppl like that in general really and though it was a member here that sparked the curiousity its not just about that member its about ppl like that overall ya know..
@GnosticGoddess (5626)
• United States
6 Jan 08
I'm with you Raven!
I don't know exactly what you're talking about if you are talking about one particular thing - but on the whole I'm with you! There are a lot of them out there!!
That's the main reason I just stick to my friends on here anymore.
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
3 Jan 08
Yup! I totally understand where you're coming from here! I enjoy being cheeky sometimes, but I also do my best to not be rude. So it frustrates me when people are continually rude to me despite the fact that I refuse to stoop to that level. Grrr.
And yes, the childishness gets old. Some of the feuds and arguments I see on mylot remind me of elementary school. :P
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
4 Jan 08
"And yes, the childishness gets old. Some of the feuds and arguments I see on mylot remind me of elementary school"
LOL yea true enough...I've had a couple of those I think..
@bonbon664 (3466)
• Canada
3 Jan 08
I agree, there are lots of people who don't understand "enough is enough". Don't let it bother you, those people want you to rise to the bait.
@seagoddess28 (873)
• Canada
3 Jan 08
I agree with you--some people don't know when to stop. Just ignore them and move on. Purple is my favourite colour, by the way!!! Here's to all purple lovers everywhere--onward and forward!!! Have a wonderful new year, Ravenladyj!
@adforme (2114)
•
3 Jan 08
Hi Ravenladyj,
I know just what you mean. If you are in the predicament of having a person like this as a coworker, it can almost cause you to go "postal", if it is in your home it can be a nightmare. It seems the easiest way to avoid a person like this is online. Online, you can ignore, be unseen, and avoid responding. Take Care.
