lice

bugs - i hate bugs spider wasps cooties they are all the same
United States
January 3, 2008 1:05pm CST
so i have this problem with my daughter everytime she gets around this one little girl she gets crawlers and i am sick to death of dealing with it we have moved put her in different schools and that family follows us i have told her mom that this is not acceptable to me and she needs to take care of her child what else can i do about this?
7 responses
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
3 Jan 08
If this family is following you when you move, then I would be wondering what was up with them. I would tell my daughter to avoid sharing items with the girl. A sure proof way of getting rid of head lice is to wash your daughters' hair with mayo. Put it on her hair and put a shower cap over it and leave it for a while , then wash it out and follow with a fruit or floral scented shampoo. That will also help to keep your daughter from getting them. My daughter has had them several times and I have never figured out where she gets them from.
• United States
3 Jan 08
mayo prevents it huh? good idea i will try that yeah she goes where i go the huge problem with that is we bought a house and i cant keep moving to keep my kids away from hers i think she is a stalker i dont even like her lol
• United States
2 Apr 08
Glad to hear that! I found that mayo outbeats the shampoo that you buy over the counter. I think that it seems to smother them. You also have to make sure that you comb the hair and get all the nits out. I am glad you got rid of them.
• United States
29 Mar 08
i did the mayo thing 3 months ago. she wears her hair in a ponytail 4 out of 5 days and i was told to keep hairspray in it and that would help. i have done that to. i am happy to say that we havent seen the other girl in months, and we have had no problem with bugs. YEAH!!!!!!
@starangel (414)
• United States
28 Jan 08
Have you tried helping the little girl yourself? I know it's not your daughter, but why should she continue to suffer from her incompetent mother? It's not the little girls fault and shouldn't be treated like a disease. somebody has to take care of her and you have a better chance in helping her right now until the authorities do something. that little girl could be dealing w/ more than just bugs. if her parents won't take care of her hair, what else is that child lacking? food? water? clothes? etc. i don't know why you moved, but you made it sound like you moved because of the little girl. i hope not...lol. because that's a little extreme. i couldn't imagine watching a kid suffer and not do anything. be the better person and show the little girl what it's like to be taken care of. she probably doesn't know any better herself. she needs to be taught how to take care of herself and you could be doing that. it would also be a great oppurtunity to show your own daughter how to be the good samaritan.
• United States
7 Feb 08
i actually did treat the other girls hair. it did no good since the other mom did not take care of the house. i did offer to do that. she said no that she would. so sad to say but yes, that family is the only reason i moved.
• United States
5 Jan 08
Do the usually stuff to get rid of them from your daughters hair and your house now. Treat hair, wash bedding, spray your couches and pillows, your cars, vacuum your house througherly and your car, put stuffed animals in plastic for 1 month (I used to only do the favorites and get rid of the rest and not allow any more for a very long time)Lice treatment kit is usually at Wal-Mart. Use it!!! After hair treatment as ordered have to repeat hair treatment in at least 14 days this includes combing hair to remove nits. Purchase a tea tree oil shampoo (Nexus type product) (usually from a place that sell beauty shop supplies) shampoo hair at least 2's a week with this to help prevent reinfestation. My granddaughter got them and her mother would not listen on how to get rid of them. I went over and gutted the house and cleaned everything. Treated her and mom and dad and repeated. I ended up cutting their hair shorter but not by much and got the tea tree oil shampoo. This has helped alot on the prevention. Call the welfare department and report about the continual problem that occurs because they don't treat the problem. They will make sure they do. I am surprised that the school hasn't.
• United States
5 Jan 08
i already took care of my daughter i dont want her walking around with crawlers in her head the school nurse and i had a talk about the other girl i told her it had been a problem in daycare and preschool with her also she wasnt aware of that she did tell me that the school only excuses the one day anymore than that is unexcused she then told me it had been over 7 school days and the other girl still hadnt been back and that she would be recieving truancy papers so maybe that will help i hope so
@SukiSmiles (1991)
• United States
11 Jan 08
We have always used dandruff shampoo to ward off lice. I read about it once. So, every time we get a letter from school that there was lice found, we wash our kids hair with it for a week or so. Sometimes we do it just because we haven't done it in a while - a just in case thing. Luckly we have never had them.
• United States
12 Jan 08
thats a good idea ill try that thank you
@pdahse (10)
• United States
11 Jan 08
The old remendy is after you wash her hair massage her scalp with Tea Tree oil, just her scalp it seems to work and at least they will not keep comming back...try that and let me know....
• United States
11 Jan 08
is that something i can but atkroger? how long do i rub it in for?
@m3mema5 (90)
• United States
28 Jan 08
The one thing would be to forbid them any where around your family and that they need to take care of the problem. If the other mother doesnt do anything than you need to contact the school and talk to them . To see if that helps. If that dont work, Than I would contact the health department about the family and see what they say.
• United States
7 Feb 08
you know i did all that and no one will do anything. my sister turned her into childrens services and they told her that as long as the other mom could prove that she was trying to solve the problem, they couldnt do anything. anyone can go buy a bottle of shampoo and say they are trying. i did use the hairspray trick mentioned earlier and so far so good. but then she has not been around the other girl either
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
3 Jan 08
but they have this problem at every school. there are parents that really just refuse to do anything about the childs hair or do the bare minimum. my daughter had lice twice and that was plenty. things that you can do is make sure your child's hair is up ALL THE TIME like in a pony tail or what have you, this will help greatly!
• United States
3 Jan 08
it would be helpful except i cant get her to keep it up she is 6 and very prissy she had this really fine straight hair and it comes out of ponytail easy as soon as one piece comes out she takes it down because she dont want to have ugly hair she is in kindegarten and has had it more than2 times and she keeps getting it from the same girl the girls mom keeps her hair cut very short and that is how she treats it she dont wash nothing