have you ever felt like no one cared for you?

@bianx21 (339)
Philippines
January 5, 2008 8:18am CST
I did...A lot of times...But I never stopped caring for my loved ones even if I felt this way.
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• United States
5 Jan 08
I feel like this all of the time. I spent Christmas eve,day. and New Years alone. These are times when people should be with family. I recently just moved to a small town where I know no one. On top of all of this I am single and pregnant. So I know a lot what it feels like to have no one care. On the brighter side I will have my new little one to care for and love me.
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• China
5 Jan 08
hi barbiegirl13, I'm sorry to hear that you're in such a rough position. I'm sure that your little baby will you bring you hope and meaning of life, though. You deserve love just like everyone else.
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@bianx21 (339)
• Philippines
7 Jan 08
that's very sad to hear...but don't give up...just keep your spirits high...someday,that child in your tummy will be the best gift you'll ever receive...when's the little creature coming out?i hope you'll always be in a good condition..
• China
5 Jan 08
At times, yes. But it's more of a momentary thing, since I know I'm not completely alone, even though my beloved ones (family & friends) don't always show that they care.
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@bianx21 (339)
• Philippines
7 Jan 08
thank you for responding...keep your spirits high...life is full of ups and downs and there's no place for loneliness in this world...one way or another,we will feel cared for...
• Indonesia
5 Jan 08
I sometimes feel the same way too. Especially when I was having an argue with my folk. When I was having a fight with my boyfriend. But after the argument is over sometimes I feel so silly for thinking about those things. Some part of me just say that it was only my imagination.
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• United States
5 Jan 08
There have been quite a few times in my life where I have felt as if no one cared about my desires and beliefs, not in particularly me. Let me explain. Growing up, I always saw myself as the Ugly Duckling. I was the one that everyone wanted to see fail because my potential was amazing. Nonetheless, I viewed life with such a different degree of perspective than anyone else around me and I learned to accept the discouragements as my encouragements. Don't get me wrong though, my family supported me and loved me unconditionally. It was the people outside my family circle that were threatened by my potential, therefore doing their best to bring me down. I have had teachers show no interest or care for having me as their student among many other experiences. Things have changed a lot though, maybe it was the fact that no matter what others thought or did, it was not going to slow me or break me down. So they (all my enemies) gave up and accepted that I was never going to give up no matter how hard I had to fight and that I was never going to become a negative no body. So yes, to answer your question...I have felt that others didn't care for me. But everywhere you go in life, you will be faced with people who just don't care for you, your well-being, your thoughts, your hopes, and your dreams. Sometimes our own families tend to be the ones to show lack of interests in us...but what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. I am glad to know that no matter what, you chose to continue to love your love ones regardless of their lack of care towards you. At the end of the day, they are still your friends and family and they will realize that they should appreciate you for who you are. Just because we aren't loved doesn't mean we shouldn't love right? Thanks for the topic...be blessed and always positive.
@bianx21 (339)
• Philippines
7 Jan 08
You know, your words are actually sinking into my heart...your responses make me feel that i'm doing something right... Thank you!
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• United States
7 Jan 08
I am glad to hear that! Continue doing what you do and don't let anyone or anything stop your thoughts, actions, or feelings. Once you know in your heart that what you are doing is right...then nothing can go wrong. You were given life, so be thankful...and LIVE IT!! It's not what others think you should do, it what you know you should do. Be blessed and positive always.