Debt Consolidation - good, bad or indifferent? ADVICE NEEDED!!!

@dmillman (2273)
United States
January 7, 2008 6:08pm CST
I'm thinking about trying debt consolidation. My husband does it, and I'm thinking about doing it. I've been in debt for a long time and I can't seem to get ahead. Every time I do, it's like one step forward, ten steps back. I'm out of short-term disability at 60% of what my original income was, and it's making it more and more difficult to stay on top of my bills, let alone pay them off. I've been opening new credit cards and putting the cards with the higher APR's onto the new cards with the lower APR's. I hear that it's a bad thing to do and can mess up your credit. I also hear that using a debt consolidation service puts a red-flag on your credit and keeps you from getting good credit. Right now my credit is excellent, and I don't want to make it bad, so what do you think???
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@reinydawn (11643)
• United States
8 Jan 08
True debt consolidation is merely taking out one loan to pay off all the other loans, so you only have one payment. Usually people will do this by taking a home equity line of credit. That normally has a lower interest rate while creating a tax deduction. If you are looking to do debt counseling, that's a bit different. I did it 10 years or so ago I think... It helped me out tremendously. Unfortunately, what I found out later is that most of my creditors would have worked with me if I had called them. I would have gotten the same deal as I did through the credit service, without the $50/month fee. I have since bought a house, and 2 cars. I have credit cards again too. The only thing that has changed is my attitude. My only debt is the house and 1 car. Although we charge everything on our one credit card, we pay it off at the end of the month. And we get 1% cash rebates on the card. It's like they pay us 1% to use the card - I like that idea! Whichever way you go, unless you STOP using the credit cards, you're going to end up right where you are now but most likely worse. I'm getting ready to start reading Dave Ramseys book - Total Money Makeover. I have heard WONDERFUL things about it and am really excited to see what tips he has.
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@reinydawn (11643)
• United States
8 Jan 08
Not a problem. I remember how it was not having as much money coming in as was going out. Once you get a handle on it, you should be ok.
@reinydawn (11643)
• United States
31 Mar 08
Thanks for the best response. That reminds me that I have a TON of discussions I need to go back and clear up.
@dmillman (2273)
• United States
8 Jan 08
Thank you very much for your great insight into this matter. I will keep all of this in mind when it comes time to make my decision. I might check that book out too, so thanks for mentioning it to me.
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
8 Jan 08
dear dmillman... i also have debts and am trying very hard to pay them off... i have a home loan, car loan and personal loan... and with the interest rates keep on increasing, it is very hard for me to make extra repayment as all my and my hubby's salary is almost finish everytime we get our paychecks to pay for all of those debts... plus the bills, petrol and groceries prices that are also increasing... so i really really know how you feel... right now, me and my hubby can only pray to God and ask Him for His blessings to give us health... so that we can earn money together to pay off the debts... fortunately, it is getting much better now... i'll pray for you and best of luck...
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@dmillman (2273)
• United States
8 Jan 08
Thanks for your comments lingli_78! Have you considered debt consolidation at all, like I am? Just curious.
@sigma77 (5383)
• United States
8 Jan 08
My best advice is not to open any more accounts and take one account and pay it off. Then continue to pay them off one at a time and quit using them as you pay them off. Continuing to open new accounts is the game the credit card companies want you to play. Eventually, you want to have only one or two accounts. One for regular purchases that can be paid off fairly quickly and the other for emergencies. I don't trust debt consolidation services because I don't think they have full disclosure. Meaning that if you are not really careful, you might not get the servive you thought you would get.
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@dmillman (2273)
• United States
8 Jan 08
Thank you sigma77 - I will take that into consideration!!! The way you mention it is exactly how others have mentioned it to me. I just want to find out what all my options are at this point in time. Thanks again!
@jeff_td (27)
• China
8 Jan 08
I think it is better not to get too much credit card, consider deeply you will found it can not help you afford the debt
@dmillman (2273)
• United States
8 Jan 08
Thanks for posting Jeff.