My Heart or My Mind

United States
January 8, 2008 6:07pm CST
My situation is that I am 16 now and I have known this guy for a year now. We have dated and I have grown to love him. When we were together we had our ups and downs, he cheated but will ner own up to it. I am not a blind girl and I know for a fact he did and have proof of it. I was wondering ifI am dumb for still being in love with him even thogh he plays with my mind and on top of everything he is a gang banger.
3 responses
@garnet80 (354)
• Australia
9 Jan 08
I wouldn't even consider having him back. Once they cheat they will always do it. You are better than that and deserve a lot better. You are still young and as they say there are plenty more fish in the sea.
@lovi_r (4)
9 Jan 08
hello there i believe that you are not a dumb person at all but that sometimes its hard to exercise control over our emotions even when our head is telling us otherwise. but you are still a young person and i am not going to tell you that you are too young to fall in love, but that you should take this slowly and re assess your life and your feelings, no matter what, if you are in love, you must be content not feel confused, low or down. so think about it. nobody is worth less than the next person.
@beeeckie (803)
• United States
9 Jan 08
You're saying all this here because you already know you deserve and can do a lot better. You're really young. Leave him behind, cause it's not love.