wat do u do when u meet an ex

@megaplaza (1438)
Nigeria
January 11, 2008 11:29am CST
do you feel some guilt or bad or feel old memories when you meet an ex. how do you feel when you greet them face to face. i have a friend who avoid his ex,
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@piatos03 (396)
• Philippines
1 Feb 08
When you see an ex, I suggest you run in the opposite direction. Kidding. You reaction tells a lot about how you are feeling at the moment. Whether you still love them or if the feeling is completely lost. For me it goes either way. If you avoid them, it means that you either love them or that they did something to you that you really do not want to remember by conversing with them, even if it's just the simple hi hello pleasantries. If you stay and go up to them, then the feeling is completely platonic. There is no malice and you don't feel guilt. You hold dear the memories you two once made, but you both know that nothing will ever come off it again.
• Philippines
15 Jan 08
Actually that happened to me few times with my two exes and although we parted ways ok, still theres a feeling of awkwardness when we meet either accidentally or through gatherings. Two of my exes where either friend of my cousin or the brother of my cousins husband. Theres a big possibility of really meeting again. In my second ex, when i meet him through gatherings, i always feel uncomfortable because he was my first love and i took me 6 years to forget him but luckily i did overcame that feeling and he is also married. Just meeting all the time helped me realized that we are not really meant to be together and helped me to move on. Im in my three year relationship right now and i am very happy and contented.
@poohgal (6848)
• Singapore
11 Jan 08
I will definitely not feel guilty because I've never failed any of my ex. Only they fail me. So they should be the one feeling guilty, not me. I do not avoid them because I am not the one who failed them. Anyway, I will not want to bump into them. If I ever do (which I did a few days ago), I will just pretend not to see him. He does not deserve my friendship so I do not wish to say even a Hi to him.