The one that hurt you most is the one you most value...

@ddnj2006 (652)
Philippines
January 11, 2008 8:33pm CST
When you love someone, it doesn't mean you'll always be happy. Coz love is a matter of realizing the happiness and sadness felt for someone. Although loving is a one of the greatest thing, it is also a responsibility of holding on and keeping up to live inspite of hurt and sorrow that come. Coz i know, the one you love most, is the who can hurt you deeply.. it is because of how much you value his/ her existence.. The happiness is that, as you love, your life comes worth living..
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@fairyanny (363)
• China
13 Jan 08
The more you care for it,the more you will get hurt.One love can bring happy as well as sad.But everything we do is just leave the good memory in our hearts,right??
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@ddnj2006 (652)
• Philippines
14 Jan 08
Absolutely.. for making importance of someone, even it stays or was gone, will always make memories that made the value of living.
• China
14 Jan 08
Yes,something cann't be forgotten,it is always with you during your life.
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• India
31 Jan 08
we value the one who hurts us the most b'coz as you said in love there is a responsibility too, apart from that everytime your love wud hurt you you'll realise that thre is someone who makes notice of your things, the person feels his/her right upon you and all the more he/she loves you. it also becomes a reason for the guilt thereby making you better which incultates respect towards that person and the value increases.
@ddnj2006 (652)
• Philippines
13 Feb 08
coz the more you love someone, the more it tends to hate. But hating doens't really mean of not loving, but instead, it makes the value of someone to be known. ..to know that love is unconditional, that it doesn't need any exchange upon giving it to someone. Although when it's been unreturned, it really aches much.
• Philippines
13 Mar 08
I do agree! ^_^ Part of loving is hurts and pains,these are indications that you truly love and care for them. These hurts are not hurts out of anger but rather its all out of love, thus making it bearable and after a while you'll realized it is worth experiencing!
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@SONALIKA (573)
• India
1 Feb 08
hi,nice to see u again.yes,it is true human is bound to get deeply hurt by the person with whom he is deeply in love with.as we don't expect our loved ones hurting us whether it is intentionally or not.and when we do get hurt we arte not ready for it as that person is never under least suspicion of harming us.and as we are in love with that person we don't know how to answer back.......whethe3r be forgiving,cursing or the least one to take revenge.situation really gets difficult to handle
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