A Big Thank You For The Friends Who Offered Condolences During Our Loss!

@budsr03 (2354)
Canada
January 12, 2008 6:01pm CST
The funeral was held yesterday for our daughter Dodi who perished so suddenly in a house fire! We recieved a lot of support from friends and family, surely without the support i don't know where we would be! We still have a lot to go through with the investigating still! We hope justice will prevail because we were told the fire was deliberatly set! Live was short for our Bird, her nickname of several, she was turning a new leaf and had plans and goals! I am only asking if some friends would continue praying for us to have the strenght to endure this terrible ordeal? Thank you very much!
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@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
13 Jan 08
You've been on my mind this whole time and was concerned when I saw you weren't around lately, but of course what you have gone through is understandable. I do hope that the investigation shows who was responsible and brings some justice into the matter. You and your family of course will continue to be in my prayers budr (((hugs)))
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@budsr03 (2354)
• Canada
15 Jan 08
I've signed in a few times, but i couldn't reply or even think of anything to say! I will sign in sometimes because i can feel comfort here in Mylot! I won't leave here without saying goodbye! Thank you Pye for your care and concern and please take care!
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@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
15 Jan 08
Just be sure to take care of yourself, my friend! ((hugs)))
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@budsr03 (2354)
• Canada
15 Jan 08
For Bunn Bunn Our bird was taken so suddenly. She was just learning to fly. Now she leaves behind friends and family with nary a dry eye. God’s purpose for Bunn Bunn our bird Is more important in heaven Than here on this earth. Our gracious Lord, from the mighty heavens above Sent down his bird, known as the dove. So, side by side, God’s purest dove Graciously flew into the arms of His love. We miss you, our girl. We love you, Dodi.. Love Dad, Mom, family and friends. Written by Bud for his daughter Dodi
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@mssnow (9493)
• United States
24 Feb 08
OMG!! Bud I am SO sorry. That is so sad. I will pray for you and your family. You guys were trying so hard to keep her safe. I hope they have caught whoever did this.
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@budsr03 (2354)
• Canada
27 Feb 08
Hi Princess :), I'm glad to hear from you! I truly thank you for the prayers because it seems to be getting harder to deal with our loss. I hope everything is ok in all areas of your life? Yup, i think about your well-being. I'm very sure i will be looking into group family grieving and counselling! I think both Pat and i need it, but not in the same group so we don't end up blaming one another. Your getting married Princess? Emmm, i'll have to check out your discussions, if i do spend more time on mylot. Please take care! :)hugs.
@thinkerm (29)
• United States
15 Jan 08
Very terrible news! I know that advanced technology will hopefully solve the case!
@budsr03 (2354)
• Canada
15 Jan 08
Thank you Thinkerm, i too hope to have an answer soon and i hope it is the truth! Take care!
@williamjisir (22903)
• China
14 Jan 08
Hello dear budsr. I am deeply sorry to hear the loss of your loved daughter who perished so suddenly in the house fire. This great loss of your daughter to you means so much to you and your family. I am really feeling so bad to hear this in the hope that the truth of the fire will be found out soon. I hope that you are trying to get out of this grieving moment. May God bless the soul of your loved daughter! I also wish you to cheer up, dear budsr.
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@budsr03 (2354)
• Canada
16 Jan 08
Thank you for your thoughts William! I feel the only way we are coping, is from the family and friend support! Sometimes i feel i am going to break completely! Take care!
@mummybec (685)
• Australia
13 Jan 08
Oh.... I am sooo sorry to hear this, That is awful! I am glad to hear that you have your family and friends there supporting you... I wish you all the strength you need at this time.
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@budsr03 (2354)
• Canada
16 Jan 08
Your wishes are very welcome Mummybec! I feel a deep sadness inside, but i am glad it isn't a constant feeling! We're so thankful for the people praying and thinking of us! Take care Mummybec!
@citygirl (1081)
• Canada
13 Jan 08
Budsr I am so sorry to see this, loosing a child is so heart wrenching. It must be even more so when there is the thought the fire was deliberately set. My heart goes out to you and your family. You are in my prayers. I too hope justice prevails and the villan is caught and punished although that won't bring your little bird back at least you will have justice. I will keep you in my prays . Stay strong and hang in there. We are all thinking of you.
@budsr03 (2354)
• Canada
14 Jan 08
I haven't been on here much, but i do sign in to see how my fellow mylotters are doing! I consider mylot as a place where i can find my extended family! Thank you for the prayers and please take care!
@Modestah (11192)
• United States
2 Apr 08
budsr, we have not touched base in so long a time. I am terribly sorry for your loss - it is the most difficult pain one can ever endure, I think, the loss of a beloved child... and how compounded that burden becomes when there is cause to believe malicious activity on the parts of others that facilitated the loss. While the sense of loss will never altogether go away, I am told the sharp pain of it does lessen over time. When it is still so fresh in the heart though we sometimes cling to it as though we were clinging to our loved one. again, my condolences
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