i wonder why a lot of people often take for granted the ones who love them truly

Philippines
January 13, 2008 12:27am CST
I have had this relationship with an old friend. a buddy... a good old one... after being friends for 3 years, constant "textmate or smsmate" we started going out. Although I know he just had his heart broken with a girl he's been with for 3 yrs. I know the girl though just by name. And he found herself a new one, so i therefore assume this friend who happens to be my boyfriend who became my ex boyfriend can forget her... you know.. guys can easily forget, than girls... but wtf!? eventhough they've broke up 6 months before we've dated, she cant damn forget about her.. and the problem now is.. the history is just repeating itself... I gotten back with an ex boyfriend of 5 years... ( now we have a different story...)( read my blog at friendster if you want) ... Anyhow... I still love my friend... and now my relationship with my bf is being affected. lets put it this way, the feeling my friend felt for her ex is what im feeling now... But the question is, and what Im confused about is that, I DONT KNOW WHY. and i still cant answer my questions... pls. share.... huhuhu
3 responses
@subha12 (18441)
• India
14 Jan 08
I think this situation is tough one. May be it is really hard to forget old love. Old love rekindles and people find them in the same situation as yours. I think If you still feel confused, take help of relationship expert in this case.
1 person likes this
• Philippines
15 Jan 08
Thanks for giving time replying to my post. Yes indeed im seeking for one h*ck of a professional relationship guru. This is such a tough journey i still dont know how to be able to work on. I appreciate your thoughts about this. Thank you
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
13 Jan 08
Hi, I hope an expert psychologist or counsellings could help this out, here I could see that you are worried for getting love and friendship for those whom you love. May there might be some thing that they do like from your side or may be from their side hope this might be rechecked and rectified if possible. May this may not be right solution still if possible give a try.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
13 Jan 08
Hi, I hope an expert psychologist or counsellings could help this out, here I could see that you are worried for getting love and friendship for those whom you love. May there might be some thing that they do like from your side or may be from their side hope this might be rechecked and rectified if possible. May this may nto be right solution still if possible give a try.