should man pay women for wasting their young age

China
January 15, 2008 5:47am CST
everybody know what young age means to women.that's the most precious thing to women.so,when boys say goodbye to their girlfriend ,should he pay the girl for wasting their young age and taking up their body?in my opinion ,yes.it's boys responsibility.boys dont care too much about time but women do.what's in your mind,let's share?
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@youless (112164)
• Guangzhou, China
15 Jan 08
I don't think so. If they won't fool each other and they really love each other, but due to some reasons they have to breakup. I don't think anyone shall pays for it. Otherwise this is not love, it's a deal.
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• China
16 Jan 08
for true love .nobody should pay for it .but nowdays people are more practical ,including people ' attitute towards love and marriage.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
16 Jan 08
Nonsense. No a man shouldn't pay for "wasting a woman's age". Oh and if men should pay for that, it should work BOTH ways. But then again, plenty of men actually welcome age, so maybe I should level this bogus playing field. Perhaps men should pay women for wasting their young age, if women could pay for the emotional abuse, verbal abuse, mental abuses and social abuses. That effects a good deal of men. Plus those damages aren't superficial, they are VERY real and completely disturb a person (sometimes with the worst of outcomes...) -"everybody know what young age means to women.that's the most precious thing to women."- Sad in my opinion, but for a good deal of women its true. -"so,when boys say goodbye to their girlfriend,should he pay the girl for wasting their young age and taking up their body?"- Conclusion barely follows and its completely shallow either way. BOTH people spent time together in a relationship. If it doesn't work out due to "grandiose"(abuse,divorce) reasons then neither person should have to pay for anything. And why does a woman owe nothing to a man for leaving or destroying a relationship; but a man somehow does? -"in my opinion,yes.it's boys responsibility"- That's your opinion, here's mine. People are responsible for their own choices and actions, including time spent on activities (even relationships). The thing is, people come up with a need for compensation, especially when a relationship fails, and some of the reasons they provide are completely ridiculous (maintain life they are use to, they "deserve" it, etc) -"boys dont care too much about time but women do."- Some guys do care about time. In fact, I care so much about my time I may never risk subjecting myself to 1, 5, 10, 20, 30 years of horrors which only I lightly described in the second paragraph. -"what's in your mind,let's share?"- Already shared.