Dating Younger Guy
January 15, 2008 12:21pm CST
I'm dating a 21 year old and I'm 39. We seem to not be on the same page, but sexually are very compatible. He feels I want more, which I do, but I don't want to put that kind of pressure on him. He is now getting distant and scared thinking I want commitment. How can I convince him I just want us to be special friends and lovers, no more. He senses I am getting too attached, which is not true.
• United States
15 Jan 08
My advice is give him his space, don't call him a million times because that will scare him into a commitment he may not want. Perhaps you need to tell him how you feel and see how he responds. If he leaves then let it be. He is still very young and he knows that, and so do you. If you don't want to seem to attatched, then like mentioned, give him his space. Find something you can do that won't have you thinking of him all the time.