Why do someone change after having her own family???
By patricia24
@patricia24 (568)
Philippines
January 18, 2008 5:35am CST
Many people said that if you have your own family, you will be more responsible not only to yourself, but for the growth, health and finacial stability of your family. As i grow up, i don't think that money is so hard to earn because i only ask for it from my mom and dad. But now that I have my own family and not asking for money to anyone, It's been hard for me to budget. And thinking what will happen next or in the future to our family is benn very hard for me. I am now so strict person when it comes to enjoying or coming out because its really out of the budget. Some relatives say iam killjoy but they didnt know that i have a budget or time table, when we will go out for leisure things, or when is the right time to buy things like that.... SO HARD.. so many things that you must think first before anyhting else... What do you think?? Do someone really change after having a family??
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@Sillychick (3275)
• United States
18 Jan 08
Yes, it's called responsibility. You have someone other than yourself to think of and to care fore and that is a big change. You are still the same person, but you have different priorities. Continue to put your family first, but don't neglect yourself entirely. Do something nice for yourself once in a while so you can relax and relieve stress.
@alexxbt (1)
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18 Jan 08
First,I must said I think people will change after having a family.When you have your own family,you will find you must think many things that you never mind.you will care for you mom and dad.you will earn much money for your children. you must do somethings you dont like.such as job.because you need that salary.In sum,I think all of these change in order for familys health and finacial stability.
