Soul Engagement!!!!!!!?????))))

@okwusman1 (2247)
Abuja, Nigeria
January 18, 2008 2:53pm CST
I was in relationship with a lady each time we are having fun she keeps calling her former BF and this surprises me alot, atimes she will stop and start calling my own name. So i discovered that both souls are in engagement. Have you experienced this before? If yes how did you deal with the situation?
4 responses
@angieang (262)
• United States
18 Jan 08
Wow, as a woman I would say that she is not yet over this ex. I know my man would stop right in the middle of the fun if I called my ex's name. So props for you to finish handleing up on her! lol It would make me feel super insecure, if my man called out his ex's name.
@okwusman1 (2247)
• Abuja, Nigeria
19 Jan 08
it surprised me, it was when she was moaning that she was calling the ex BF name and I just believed that she was still in soul engagement with him. what do i do?
@angieang (262)
• United States
22 Jan 08
I believe you might want to let this one fly. For sure I would talk to her first though. Maybe, she didn't realize she did it, and you should point it out to her. But chances are she is on the rebound and you give her time to heal before trying to make a relationship last.
19 Jan 08
I would say... GET OUTA THERE... why would you want to be with someone who is obviously thinking of someone else when they are with you? You deserve someone who thinks you arre number 1 in their life, not an ex!
@okwusman1 (2247)
• Abuja, Nigeria
29 Jan 08
infact veronica, it is a surprise, i have decided to abandon her and look for another person. thanks for the wonderful advice.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
19 Jan 08
I think she is still emotinally attacjhed to her ex, I have seen this in a so called friend. He once proposed me after he broke up with his GF. Again i declined. But we were good as friends. When we used to go somewhere, he would talk to his GF several times. its really a mess i think.
@okwusman1 (2247)
• Abuja, Nigeria
28 Jan 08
it is a mess. she kept on calling her ex until she realize i was on her not her ex before she changed to my name. her attitude that day kept disturbing me.
@danzer (2723)
• Philippines
18 Jan 08
What fun are you having? May be his former BF has some traits that is difficult to forget, or might be that he's better in making fun, ha ha Ha! Just kidding.
@okwusman1 (2247)
• Abuja, Nigeria
18 Jan 08
i was in amazement, it really surprised me. but i handled her very well.