Your husband and your best friend in bed?

Nigeria
January 19, 2008 3:57am CST
hello friends, can you please help me out? What will you do if you catch your husband and your best friend who also happens to be your confidant in bed? Should i just walk away and do as if i did not see them or fight? Help me, i am almost running nuts
6 responses
@luanakent (795)
• Brazil
19 Jan 08
First: She isn't your best friend NEVER!! she is a loss to your home. she is a no-shame!! If she is your "friend"......she never would be with your husband. False in person!! Not friend..she is a traitor to you friendship and she is not a good company. you Make clear that you do not want her in your house. As for your husband.. He haven't got any respect for you . Cheating with women is already bad but with the best friend's wife?? I know of many cases of women who are close to the wives with evil intent.I think it is your case. Everybody suffers temptation but can accept or not. You have 2 ways: Or you stay with him OR you kick his butt. If you continue with him.. think well!! Marriage has to be good for both. You will still feeling good with him? If you want to even fight for marriage.. you need help. Talk to someone in your church.You will need strength from God . Same way.. your husband will have to be willing to change as well. In both cases the false friend wiil have to disappear. That is what you have to impose. Try to get close to God. It is your duty defend your home,your marriage. Marriage is sacred. You have power to send evil away but in the name of Jesus. But if you decide to end the marriage.. you know that you can! Husband gave reasons. Fall into temptation is common.. but when a person is raises and flee from the sin ..it pleases God. Transform this sin in victory. If you want to fight ..God will give you victory in the name of Jesus. And next time see well who you let in your home. Envy is very negative and "friend" is full of it and do not have any moral or love. Explain to your husband that you will never play fool...but do it with calm. and patience. And.. for your "friend" kick her out off your house.
@Debs_place (10551)
• United States
21 Jan 08
I would not walk..I would run to a lawyer. I would see about making him and ex and I would show no mercy. As for the best 'friend', she is a lowlife that slithers on the ground. Stay away from her and warn all of her friends about their 'friend'
• United States
21 Jan 08
Neither one of them are worth your time.Walk away from the both of them.Sorry,but they are no good.Don't pretend that you didn't see them and don't fight.Just get out of both of their lives.You will now have a hard time trusting another man and any friends because of them.Believe me,not everybody cheats.You just didn't pick a very good husband or a very good friend.People like these are losers.Move on now,you've learned a good lesson.This happened for a reason. Really,thank God you walked in on them or who knows how much longer you would have been decieved.There are boundries that we just don't cross if we are in a relationship or when being one's friend.
@rajaiv0810 (1013)
• Philippines
19 Jan 08
Oh my!!! If i will be in that situation I will definitely give out a good fight. But to be honest I don't know if I will be able to forgive the both them. What's definite is that they will be seeing my lawyer. And I will make sure first that before everything else all the properties will be transferred to my name.
@diillu (5130)
19 Jan 08
Well, this is the worst thing that could happen to anyone. And as for my suggestion it's not worth acting not to know. If I were you I would have already slap them really hard and drag my bestfriend out of my home. It is the time to break your relationship with both of them cause they don't totally deserve your friendship and love.
@cheenlly (3485)
• Philippines
19 Jan 08
If that happens to you i am sorry to hear that and that is obviously hard thing and very hurtful. I am not sure what will i do because my mind tells me to fight of course but it's really different when you are actually in the situation, you will feel shock and hurt and thats deal with emotion which is very hard thing. I think if me even i am shock i would try to handle myself very carefully. I will not walk away and let them know i saw them perhaps i slap both of them and thats caught in the act . I might file a case for both of them. Even i am hurt i will show to them i am strong.