Breaking homes or the Shackles… ?
By manu619
@manu619 (450)
India
January 21, 2008 9:53pm CST
No offence meant, this is just a plat form for discussion. Views of all are welcome.
In the present day scenario many homes are found breaking because of the said to be extra marital affairs.
Is it because of the wife who cannot hold the reins, or because of the other woman whose bewitching charms are believed to mesmerize the man in question or the man himself ?
Our society normally blames that 'other woman' for breaking homes. Don’t we need to give it a thought who actually is to be blamed for it?
3 responses
@bonbon664 (3466)
• Canada
22 Jan 08
You can't blame the person who's getting cheated on. Blame the cheater, man or woman, doesn't matter to me. If you're not happy in your marriage, have the courage to tell your spouse, and get out of the marriage. Then, go to other people all you want. Marriage is a contract, which to me, doesn't include one member going outside the marriage to get what they think they're not getting at home.
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@cruelkitti (230)
•
22 Jan 08
If a man or woman strays, it's because they are still wanting. They are not completely satisfied at home. Now, that's not to say that the spouse isn't doing their job, I am just saying...if you have to mess around, then you're not happy and that should be the end of the relationship. Unless you think it can be helped, but otherwise neither person deserves to live their life unhappy and should do what it is they gotta do to be happy. We only have one life, and if we spend it living for OTHERS or their judgmental point of views than what is the point of living?
I don't think it matters who is to "blame" considering the root of the purpose is what nearly every human wants...to be happy, and to waste our time trying to find out who is to blame we are spending less time doing something more important or enjoyable.
@DJ9020 (1596)
• United States
22 Jan 08
I blame mainly the married person who knowingly cheats. If the other person knows they are cheating with a married person, then they are to blame, as well. If you want something outside of your marriage, then you should dissolve the marriage first. The cheater not only breaks his/her vow to their partner, but to God, as well, if it is a marriage blessed by a church.
