Excuse me Miss!

Canada
January 22, 2008 9:38am CST
Excuse me Miss, This is to inform you that your actions not only make you look less intelligent than you are, but your are also setting the womans movement back a thousand years! I am pretty sure that when those brave women stood up so long ago to fight for what all women deserve their thought behind it was not for entire generation of women to get inebriated and take compromising pictures of themselves and post them on the internet and then call it harmless fun. Look I myself was once a "wild child" but never did it cross my mind that i should go out with my girl friends and get drunk, and then take pictures at various stages of undress, or worse wait until my friends were passed out and take their clothes off and draw all over them. I don't know where your from but where I am from that is not a friend, friends try to help their friends safe and keep things like this from happening. To be perfectly clear in some places that can be looked upon as a crime, when someone is so drunk that they can not say no or defend them selves to act like that is stooping to a new low... period. I am not saying don't drink or don't have fun but there is a line and many a young woman has crossed it. What people seem to be forgetting is that we live in an age of information, acting this way could cost you a job, cost you your friends, embarrass your family, or worse cost some one a life. Alcohol should be treated with respect, there is a reason that prohibition happened it wasn't just because it sounded fun. I am not saying that all women act this way but to those who do, look around this doesn't make you look cooler to boys, or anyone else. To many guys this makes you look cheap, easy, and expendable... What do look like to employers? well you like a waste of time and money. I am not saying this to start a fight and I am not proclaiming myself to be an angel however I knew and know better than to act like that. I think the onus is on us more knowledgeable woman to show that there is a way to have fun and not come out looking cheap, or costing yourself a great future. I think however that is message is not just to women but men as well because they do the same things and get away with it far more often,being written off as boys will be boys. So for the record it's not cool not matter who you are. There is never a time that getting so drunk that you pass out in a pool of your own vomit should be considered cool, it is time that all young people start to redefine what is truly funny and what is a violation of personal space and safety. People would do well to remember that the second you remove someones clothing without consent is a CRIME even if there is no other act committed.
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@david2005 (798)
• Canada
3 Feb 08
Yeah you are right that it is wrong for someone to do something like that to another person when they are drunk. In a lot of countries you can end up getting charged for something like that.