marriage

India
January 23, 2008 12:29am CST
what are you supposed to do if you are in an unhappy marriage?
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6 responses
• China
23 Jan 08
i am always obedient guy.if my parents arrange the marriage for me ,i would like to satisfy them.though i admire happy marriages like in those romantic stories,i suppose it's very rare in reality.if i had to face i guy i don't love .i would try my best to accept him,and do what i should do.remember to be sincere.
• United States
23 Jan 08
Possibly try counseling if you feel uncomfortable with counseling try talking. You married this person for a reason and you just have to try to rekindle what you had at one time. At times all marriages get stressful but there is a reason that you married that person and wanted to spend your life with them. Just try to put some romance back in there!
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
23 Jan 08
marriages are not like changing shirts. One has to have absolute faith in the other and vice versa and with whatever shortcomings, one has to learn to adjust and live, rather than keep on marrying, divorcing and make another marriage etc.
• United States
23 Jan 08
If you still love your spouse and they love you too and you want to make it work,then you go to couples counseling.But if you have fallen out of love with your spouse and they don't love you either, then you should divorce.If you can divorce because of religious reasons , then you should just separate. Live in different places but remain married on paper.
@ashlar (41)
• Philippines
23 Jan 08
the action should depend whether the couple already had their children... if the marriage only involves the husband and the wife, it would be a lot easier to decide or to split up. But if there are younger ones that will suffer, that would be tough. Best to talk to your partner heart to heart on what you should do and consider others and yourselves also. Remember not to make decision when your mad!
• Philippines
23 Jan 08
Its is not a lack of love but lack of friendship that makes a unhappy marriage... so you should know why are you unhappy with your marriage and then you should talked about it. Children will be the one who suffer so better talked about it