Should I continue the love?

January 25, 2008 11:38pm CST
One month ago, I met a man in my friend's wedding ceremony. For the first sight, I realized that I DO really fall in love with him. However, later I found he has just separated with his girlfriend, and he and "she" had been in love with each other for 8 years. I am very sad even though he promised he would never go back again. I don't want give up my first love for I do think he is an exellent man I ever met. And before, there are so many man passed in front of me, but I don't like them at all,and never consider the love. While for this time, I find the one I love. And this is my first love, I cherish it very much though some say the first love alway fail. On his side, because he just lost his girlfriend just now, he has not jump out of the sadness, and right now, he was indifferent to the love. He has not began to focus his attention on me----he told me one day, but he also said that we can continue this, and do not destory our present feeling. I don't know how to do? I'm afraid. Should I continue the love?
6 responses
@subha12 (18453)
• India
26 Jan 08
I think this is called fate. when there are so many men pass you, you never found yoir love. Now the person you think you are in love with,has separated from his GF of 8 years. Also there are something we must say. It is not always guranted that he will not keep contact with his past love.Make sure about it. look whether he agrees with it or not. then go on.
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• India
26 Jan 08
Hi gloriahappy2410, In my opinion you are going in a wrong way. You are in love with him at first sight. This means you have been attracted by his physique or looks. You know pretty well that he already have brokeup love affair.You said this is your first love - So, better you try to know about him before you put your next step. Good Luck.
@neon2000 (2761)
• Philippines
26 Jan 08
Don't give up. This is my advice to you. Let him feel that your love will make him forget his heartache. You are there to mend his broken heart. If you easily give up, you would not know if you win the battle to make his heart beat for you. If despite of all your effort that he still find it very hard to recuperate, talk to him and give him the time think about your love.
• United States
26 Jan 08
It sounds like you are with a man that you do love very deeply and this other guy is still recovering from a heart break. The last thing you want is to give up what you have just to be this other guys rebound relationship. If I were you I would back away from this other guy and cherish the man that I have. If the other guy gets over the love he probably still has for his ex and then comes to you and tells you he is ready then you will have to make this decision . But for right now I wouldn't risk losing the love you have for a love that may never be.
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@tiller (57)
• China
27 Jan 08
It is not easy for anyone to find Mr.ringht.If you find,you must keep it going.Because,if you give up,you may not have a chance like that any more.Love means enjoy,enjoy the joy and the sadness.When you fall in love with him one day,you will find the happiness deserves everything you do .
@babymar (361)
• Philippines
26 Jan 08
i think you should continue it....since obviously you love that person... but you have to wait until his heart was healed....he was separated with his girlfriend of 8 years, so i think he was deeply hurt by it, you should stay beside him and give all your support, don't expect that he will love you as much as you love him since he was broken hearted...just wait until he loves you more than you do....