Do you really believe?

@the_ruler (1442)
Turkey
January 26, 2008 5:48am CST
Do you really believe that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach ? :) You girls, how well would you cook for your loved one :)
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6 responses
26 Jan 08
I think a good meal can go a long way, but it a man's feelings should certainly not be dependent on that. XD I think that food is necessary for life, but not necessarily a prerequisite to a relationship. I don't mind cooking all the meals. It's fun. XD
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@the_ruler (1442)
• Turkey
26 Jan 08
Yeah, It is for sure. but that was just an old saying you know :) shouldn't be taken very seriously but you can keep it in mind :D :))
@angeltt (11)
• China
27 Jan 08
I can't cook very well,but he can!
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• China
28 Jan 08
I think true love don't need that!If you really love her you can cook well for her !
@the_ruler (1442)
• Turkey
28 Jan 08
Well, of course true love don't need that but wouldn't a woman try to do the best for her loved one as well as the man would do the same?
@the_ruler (1442)
• Turkey
27 Jan 08
That looks like an alternative way :) Thanks for your response
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
26 Jan 08
That is very true a way to a mans heart is through his stomach that is true, that is how I got my husband he loves my cookimg. the is the real secret in keeping a man. I just aded you now add me. I will be back to answer more, and I hope you answer mind I will remember you.
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@the_ruler (1442)
• Turkey
26 Jan 08
Thanks for your answer and interest marciascott I will add you now :)I thought you wouldn't remember that thanks :)
• United States
27 Jan 08
Been there, done that. Be *very* careful what you ask for, because you *might* just get it just to find out years later you made a wrong choice. Seriously, for *this* discussion, there are still lots of men out there who want a good/great cook, so Yes, I have to agree.
@the_ruler (1442)
• Turkey
27 Jan 08
Thanks for your comment kkattster. I am not sure if there are many gals around to handle that really :D
27 Jan 08
Hi,perhaps you girls should listen to my opinion, because i am a man. As known to us all, food is the most important thing to our human beings, and competited to women, men ask more. you know, in the thousand of years, usually men went out to work while women are at home doing some housework and things alike. So when man comes back home, he will be satisfied if his wife or girlfriend has made everything well done for him. Based on this point, to a great extent, I agree with those words that, if you want catch a man's heart, then first seize his stomach. Another words, Dear The_Ruler, it seems that you fell in love with somebody. The stomach is closed to a man's heart, but it is not that important. Which will come to another big point, that is, love. Here we can make it easier. When you come to love, please consider it carefully that what love is. Why you love him and What you can do for him and which will make him happy. Meanwhile, love is bilateral. Sometimes it will ask man to do something for the other one. Seizing the essence of that and you will get what you want. Best wishes. Thomas
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@the_ruler (1442)
• Turkey
27 Jan 08
Thanks for that great comment Thomas :) by the way, I am male too :)
@the_ruler (1442)
• Turkey
27 Jan 08
:)) no problem, it is ok ;)
27 Jan 08
Sorry for my mistake, Dear The_Ruler.
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• China
27 Jan 08
I'm a girl who dislike cooking and is not good at cooking.I never believe that cooking well is a good way to a man's heart,and I always believe that a man who really cares of you is a man who do not want you to cook for the family instead of employing one.and in my opinion,the way to a man's heart is to understand him,respect him,and give him strengh as well as warm when he need.That's why I never try to learn cooking well,but contribute myself to how to understand others well.
@the_ruler (1442)
• Turkey
27 Jan 08
That's a very nice response sharon :) Thanks for writing :)Of course, what you say is a necessary component of a healthy relationship and If you want to keep your partner happy, it is the ultimate way. But I don't think it would be bad to put some effort on that kind of things, just like a little surprise and every men would love to see their loved one has put some effort on anything for them, not only cooking :) I strongly believe that emotional support is the most important one of course, all others are just small fruits of that peaceful harmony