I am so sad.

China
February 1, 2008 3:19am CST
I wanted to break up with someone yesterday,but I was not success.The one I wanted to break up with is who I have cared for very much,who I have been depended on for a long time.But he has his own world and he is falling love with a nice girl.So I just think I mustn't care for him too much which may hurt me deeply.I said many worse words to him,and wanted to break up with him.But he just replied to me that he knew his mistakes and also sometimes he ignored me,and he just told me that never abandon him,there is always a place for me in his heart.What could I do,how can I give up to it .I am so sad,so please leave me alone. My dear friends,if I haven't reply your discussions on time,please forgive me.I just need time to recove from it....
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6 responses
• China
1 Feb 08
Are you sure that he is falling in love with another girl?If that's ture,how can he tell you not to abandon him??As to these fickle-minded men,just forget him!If you can't prevent yourself from sadness,you may calm down and think what experiences or lessons you can learn from it.This is what I would do when I failed in doing something.As soon as you draw lessons from experience,you are growing and similar mistakes would happen to you again.Time is the best medicine.Take your time and forget him gradually...
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• China
1 Feb 08
The one I cared is my best friend not my love.....He treated me well when he was single,and now he has a gf and ignore me ,so he is also so comfused.So I wanna to ease his sadness,and donn't make me so unhappy.I would rather leave him ,but he just told me those words.What should I do.He gave hope to me but let me down in the same way......Can you understand??
• China
1 Feb 08
I'm sorry that I misunderstood your words just now.I used to have a good female friend last year.But she got a bf now.I used to feel sad for some time,and so did she.But now I seldom get in touch with her.I think the friendship like this won't last long,so I feel confused in my another discussion.If you still keep close relationship with him,his gf would hate you,and it is also not good for him...Do you think so?This is only my personal opinion.
• China
15 Feb 08
Yeah,I am so agree with you!!That's just what I confused for.I donn't know what to do.
• China
1 Feb 08
do not be so sad,everything will be all right,you can find your own mr.right one day
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• China
1 Feb 08
Well,hope your words will come true one day....All I should do is just waiting,and I will forget him when I meet my mr.right....
• Romania
1 Feb 08
Fairyanny, if you realy think that the guy is worth it don't give up, fight for him, good guys apreciate that, but if the one u speak is a faker (like I like to say) then dump him as soon as posible, cose he is only going to use u!
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• China
1 Feb 08
I just trust him,but he sometimes makes me feel so sad,and I just think that hurts me so much.Maybe there is great difference between girls and boys.He donn't think the same to the same thing.The feeling I just cann't describe and it seems like I would like to be with him but he has his own choice.So all what I should do is just watching him far far away....Thanks for your advice.I will be okay somedays later....
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@whyshell (21)
• China
1 Feb 08
change is a part of life,and life is in ur hands,don' be so sod.
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• China
1 Feb 08
Sometimes I just refuse to face the truth.I think I should change myself to adap the world.Thank you,I will be okay....
@elfkitty (30)
• China
3 Feb 08
last year,i also wonder whether i should leave this kind of guy.Now i feel happy that i left him.Give yourself a chance to meet someone really suit for you.
• China
15 Feb 08
I hate to face changes,once I start I wonn't give up easily.What's more,he was just my best friend,not my bf.^^I will have a try ,thanks for your kind heart.
@ellie333 (21029)
3 Feb 08
I am sorry that your are suffering heartache at the moment. BIG HUGS. Must be awful for you
• China
15 Feb 08
Thanks for your kind heart,I just need a big hug.^^