What do you want out of life?
February 2, 2008 2:51pm CST
If you could only pick one goal in life, what would it be? Children, career, love? Or can you have everything?
2 Feb 08
Well, the only thing you can really aim for success in is your career, because that is the only thing you can really control. You might want to meet that one special person you can spend the rest of your life with, but there's no guarantee it will ever happen, no matter how many dating sites you sign up to or how hard you work on your appearance or personality. Sometimes people fall in love with the wrong person, or sometimes the right person just fails to show up. It's not something you can control or plan. If you don't find love then in most cases that nukes your chances of having kids. Sometimes even if you have found a partner then conception doesn't happen and you have to go down the painful and expensive route of IVF. And sometimes even that doesn't work. If you make love and children your only goals in life you are setting yourself up for a lot of potential heartbreak. It is better just to let life take its course. What will be, will be.