to the girls ( the finished version)

United States
February 2, 2008 11:14pm CST
This one is too all the girls who fall in love with guys who do not deserve them!!This ones to the girls who you can take home to mom, but won't because it's easier to mess with a another than work on a relationship. This is for the girls who have been led on by words and kisses and touches, all of which were either only true for the moment, or never real to begin with. This is for the girls who have allowed a guy into their head and heart and bed, only to discover that he's just not ready, he's just not over "her" he's just not looking to be tied down, this is for the girls who believe the excuses because it's easier to believe that it's not that they don't want you, it's that they don't want anyone. This is for the girls who have had their hearts broken and their hopes dashed by someone too selfish to have cared in the first place, this is for the nights spent dissecting every word and syllable and inflection in his speech. For the nights you returned home alone, for the nights when you've seen him from across the room leaning a little too close, or standing a little too near, or talking a little too softly for the girl he's with to be a "friend"This is for the girls who have showed up party after party just to be in his presence, and finally realizing that it wasn't that he didn't want a relationship: it was that he didn't want you. This is for the night his dog died or his grandmother died or his little brother crashed his car and you held him, thinking that if you only comforted him just right, said the right words, or rubbed his back in the right way. Then perhaps he'd realize what it was that he already had. This is for the night that you realized that it would never happen, and the sunrise you saw the next morning after failing to sleep. This is for the "i really like you, so lets still be friends" comment and this is for realizing that when you choose friends, you hardly choose those which make you cry yourself to sleep. This is for the girls who have been used and abused, who have settled for what he was giving because at least he was giving something. This is for the stupidity of the nights we've believed that something was better than nothing, Though his something was nothing we ever wanted!This is for the hugs recieved for our closest girl friends, For the nights they've reassured you that your beautiful. And that you are truly worthy of a great guy. This is for the regret you've felt as you've sat in the aftermath of your tears. (always remember to never settle for what you can get, only settle for what you cannot live without)
2 responses
• India
4 Feb 08
Its nice, But i have a one thing against it. Why did you actually include the word GIRLS everywhere? i mena do you think it never happens to guys? do you think that all girls in this world are so good that they never cheat or ditch guys? Well having heart breaks is same be it a girl or a guy. broken hearts are not only caused by guys alone but also by girls. One more thing having included the word GIRLS in it every place, it sounds more of and anti guy thing rather than a pro girl girl..... which i feel is very wrong. anywyas it is still a good read!
• United States
3 Feb 08
Well said. Us girls need to stick together. We've all been through this stuff.