online friends - a boon or bane ??

India
February 3, 2008 4:55am CST
Most of the teenagers who access the internet are fond of chatting on net.well,i feel about 70 % of teenagers who access net are engaged in chatting with some one or the other, do you feel or think this is a good behaviour/culture ?? well,we all love making friends.. but making friends via the net i dont think is good way. what do you people feel about it.. ?? how do you judge if the user is good or bad ?? what are the criteria under which you would accept him/her as a friend?? when i chat,i have often heard people telling i "chat for timepass!! " and make friends for" timepass".. what do you think is the actual meaning of it.. ?? However,i feel friends whom you meet and get to know about them by living with them(in the sense,like school,college or educational places or others.. ) are actually far better than making friends online because you often cant completely believe the other person ( and sometimes it might be the truth as well) .. so what you think about this?? have you ever made such online friendship?? and if you dont mind,can you tell the time span of your friendship or the other way,any problems you have felt in such a friendship..??
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• United States
3 Feb 08
Are you kidding? All my friends here on My Lot I haven't seen but I consider my friends. And just because you "live with" them doesn't stop them from lying to you.What is dangerous is trying to hook up online. But if teens are just friends and they live so far away that they can't meet I think it is okay. Or even if they meet online and they aren't interested in romance, and they find out they do live close by and they want to meet , it should be okay as long as the meeting is supervised.There isn't anything wrong with meeting people online. It depends on the next step if there is one.
• United States
3 Feb 08
I once met this person on a online MMO Game and we have been online friends for 2 years now! This was and is the longest online friendship I have ever had in my life, I think its pretty cool to meet friends online I mean look at what you are doing now, just by starting topics and responding to discussions its kind of the same as chatting to an online friends since mylot is a huge community...