love

I'm not exactly sure I know what you mean. If by choked you mean that this person is controlling you, shrinking your world, restricting your activities, then I would advise you to get out now, it will only get harder. There is much more I could say but since I don't know exactly what you mean, I hesitate you say too much more, I don't want to offend you or your boyfriend. If you could describe your feelings a bit more I think I might be able to give you some better insight into what might be happening to you.