words are powerful weapons...

@jhelyn (23)
Philippines
February 9, 2008 12:03am CST
yesterday, one of my closest friends texted me.she was just asking about the goings-on in my life. i said i'm doing good and then she replied that she misses me. but because the people who were with herare some of my most hated, i said that she was surrounded with good friends and obviously, it was a sarcastic expression i made. she cried. she's one of my closest friends and honestly, i don't to lose her. however, i don't regret what i've said. what do you think should i do? we haven't spoken until now.
3 responses
• Israel
9 Feb 08
Well... first of all, I think you are wrong.. So what if you hate them? she dosen't force them upon you, it is her life, and her friends. Even if you hate her friends, it shouldn't effect your friendship with her.. I think you should apologize, and fast.
• Philippines
9 Feb 08
wow! that's sad. she might be hanging out with your worst enemies but it doesn't mean that she is one of them already. why dont you try to call her and express what you feel about her hanging out with those people. you cannot call her a friend if you cannot freely open up things to her.
• United States
9 Feb 08
If this is upsetting you so, call her or text her and tell her you are very sorry for your comment and that you didn't mean to hurt her feelings. She knows that the people she was with weren't your favorite people and it just slipped out before you actually thought about it. Tell her you didn't mean any disrespect and you are saddened because she hasn't talked to you since.