Does this iritate you too?

United States
February 11, 2008 10:28am CST
Ok i'm just throwing this out there. Your making love with your husband/boyfriend and they start being all romantic. Not a problem right. Well They kiss you all over, and play with your neck right? My husband had this problem that he'll leave hickies all over my neck, I really don't notice until afterwards when he says "oh dear thats a bad one" Does your husband/boyfriend do this too? Do you like it, do you cover it up or show it? I just want to wack him in the head when he does things like this, its very annoying. I'll be at the library checking out a good book, and he'll be like wow you should have covered that up.... lol. Don't put them on me if you don't want them to be seen is what I always say lol.
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@sacmom (14315)
• United States
12 Feb 08
My husband did this when we were boyfriend and girlfriend. I didn't mind the hickeys so much (other than they were a little embarrassing LOL), though I didn't cover them up. What bothered me was that he wouldn't let me give him any. WTF? If he could give them to me, why couldn't I give them to him? So one day I brought this up and he said I could, but by then the novelty wore off and I just wanted him to stop doing it to me. I'm pretty sure he hasn't given me any since. LOL
• United States
12 Feb 08
I cannot give them to my husband because he is in the military, so if he gets them and they are seen he gets written up for it. I can't stand that he always wins that battle, lol guess he's got the better end of the bargan.
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@sacmom (14315)
• United States
12 Feb 08
Well at least your husband has a valid reason! LOL
• Taiwan
12 Feb 08
its a problem with man.... (im a man as well) yes i like leaving hickies on my girlfriend's body thats true, but the thing is that she hates me leaving any on her neck, because she said the hickies will be seen by other people if shes wearing like a short sleeve T-shirt or something. it just doesnt seem that good. "it made me look like some hooker" thats what she said.... so we talked and i can still leave hickies on her is just that the spots for hickies is on the spots that can be covered by clothes.... :)(The problem is that men like to leave hickies on woman is because he wants to mark the woman as his.... its like this in the animal world as well... watch some animal planet channel and you can see it in the africawild life habitat.... its like a dog pissing at different areas to show his area and other dogs can smell from the pee of the dog that pissed...)
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• United States
12 Feb 08
I think that a woman will only get the feeling of being a "hooker" if she is insecure. I'm a happily married woman and if anyone askes me about it I say "yeah I rocked my husbands world last night and he tagged me for it". I'm not ashamed of my hickies, just annoyed because everyone around you stares. You know they're all probably thinking the same things that your girlfriend was, and its just rude.
@Elfwand (36)
• Philippines
12 Feb 08
I couldn't agree more. This is so annoying. My boyfriend does this too and I just hate him when he does. One time I was able to get even with him, I put major lipstick on and kissed him everywhere while he's asleep. He woke up and never bothered to check his reflection out. He even went to McDonalds to buy us some breakfast and it was the cashier at the store who showed him what he looked like! He went ballistic on me after that incident! but I couldn't be more proud of myself!
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• United States
12 Feb 08
That has to be the funniest one i've heard of so far, lol bet he was furious. Lol, be the cashier had a good day.
@nancygibson (3737)
• France
11 Feb 08
I work with children so its a rule that my husband does not leave marks anywhere that they will be seen. Its bad manners and not good for the work I do. So, we don't have a problem. However, it sounds to me like you need to lay down your own ground rules, rough play is fine if you both want it, but if you are unhappy when he does this then he needs to respect your feelings and not make you feel uncomfortable about it,
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• United States
12 Feb 08
Lol, Its not that big of a deal. Lol, I don't see it as a big problem, only a small annoyance. I'm a stay at home mom so it doesn't matter if I have them or not.
@coffeeshot (3786)
• Australia
12 Feb 08
Yes! He does it all the time and I don't notice it til the next day. It's so embarrassing and he does it on purpose to annoy me. He just tackles me and gives them to me and thinks it's hilarious.
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• United States
11 Feb 08
Oh geez, my guy does this too! Sometimes when he leaves marks, I want to hit him! Because they are so obvious! I've yelled at him about it. I don't mind him getting romantic with me, but geez, don't suck on my neck so damn hard!
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• United States
20 Feb 08
Wow, I haven't had hicky in so long I would probably enjoy it :) No, seriously, when you are of a certain age, hickies should be placed on areas of the body that is not visible to the public for instance, the inner thigh is a good spot or maybe the left butt cheek, lol.