What do you consider cheating??

Well, if he hasn't told you about it, I would consider it cheating. Its obvious he has a connection with this girl. It may not be physically cheating, but its emotionally cheating. I would confront him about it. Or just cut your losses. Its sound harsh, but if he's doing it now, he'll do it again.

i will ask you to ask him about it and find out the reason why he has not really ta;lked to you about things he discussed with the other girl.obviously there must be a form of connection but if he has no answer then i think he has a likelihood of cheating though it may not be physical

Do you know this girl?Maybe this girl is just a friend of his.Does he talk to you about his girl?Well he should so that things won't go crazy for the two of you.Good luck! :)

If it's not his sister/mother/cousin/aunt/best friend from high school, I don't blame you. It sounds like he has a connection with this girl, and if he hasn't mentioned her to you or tried to placate you and explain who she is and why they're discussing things that he doesn't even discuss with you, then it is emotional infidelity. He may not be cheating in the physical sense, but it sounds like he feels that the two of you don't have enough of a connection to talk about the important stuff, and he should have done the honorable thing and told you about her and his feelings instead of leading you on. If you really care for him, you might try asking him about it in a nonconfrontational sort of way and see how he reacts. If he gets very defensive then it's probably best to end it with him because it would be obvious that he's invested in their connection whether it's as friends or not. You'd be setting yourself up for more pain continuing on with this. I've been there myself, but the best part is you will find someone better and who feels you're the one he can share everything with -- I PROMISE!

If you're just looking at comments on his page and you confront him about it, and he wants to keep you -and- her, he may move it to messages, so tread lightly if they're talking publicly. If it is in messages and you've been logging onto his account, he might take your confronting him about it and actually looking as an invasion of privacy, which might drive him 'into the arms of the enemy' so to speak. If they're comments, I'd ask him casually about it, and see what he says. Don't jump on him right away and start making accusations, just ask him about her without trying to imply that he's doing anything or meaning anything behind your back.

myspace has seemed to become like the worst place when it comes to relationship problems..i have my boyfriends myspace password and he has mine. sadly we are FEMALE i mean we are going to always think a boy is cheating when he actually isn't. ask him about it. if he doesnt want to big up to it , then 9/10 times hes cheating. tell him that you are not a fool. ask him to put his self in your shoes for a minute and ask him how he would feel..by the way, what exactly do they talk about ? you should send her a message and ask her whats the deal with him and her !!!!! but i dont think its bad to check your boyfriends myspace..i do the samething. ;) -brittney.

I would consider it cheating in an emotional sense...I would ask him about it...It could be just innocent or maybe he was asking advice on how to tell you things or not...I know my husband can talk with our mutual best friend sometimes before me but that is just so he knows better how to phrase his words he is realllllly bad at it lol...

If I were in this situation, I would consider this cheating. But to be honest, you should confront him about it.

I do not consider this to be cheating, to cheat i beleive it has to be physical, but therefore if he is falling for this girl he is cheating on you in his mind. As he has not told you, would ask him about this girl and see what he says. It could just be a friendship, as who doesnt confide more in their friends than anyone else.

I do not consider this to be cheating, to cheat i beleive it has to be physical, but therefore if he is falling for this girl he is cheating on you in his mind. As he has not told you, would ask him about this girl and see what he says. It could just be a friendship, as who doesnt confide more in their friends than anyone else.

I would just be upfront and talk to him about it, maybe him and this girl have been friends for a long time, who knows? If they don't really have a history, or if she is an ex or something, that should definitley send red flags! Regardless, I think the best thing to do would be to talk to him about it! If after that things still don't sit well with you, your heart and your gut will let you know what to do!