Decisions
By Angel
@nanayangel (7879)
Philippines
February 14, 2008 8:31pm CST
Everyday we make decisions. Some as small as if you're gonna have milk or tea, or what outfit are you wearing and as huge as will you let go of a relationship of do you need to find a new job or are you going to buy a house. So far, what's the best decision that you made in your life?
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8 responses
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
3 Mar 08
well i pack my bags and me and my children left my abusive husband. it was not that easy to do because we need to hide from him because i know he will take us back then beat us again. i am a single mom now, working hard for my four children. its not easy but im glad we left him.
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
5 Mar 08
that is true, we can bear all the pain and sacrifices and all the problems that comes across our way, but when we see that the childrens are too much affected with it that is when we make a stand. one step forward and no looking back. i am happy to what i did and i am happy that i brought my children along.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
5 Mar 08
Yeah, that're true. Your children are adorable. God bless.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
4 Mar 08
Hi there roniroxas! That is, indeed, a big decision. I'm glad that you made the decision. Sometimes, we can tolerate the pain inflicted on us but not when the children are also involved. I think that your children are lucky to have you as their mother. I understand what you said about being a single mom as not easy but I know that what you did is right. Thank you very much for sharing that.
@jeanniemay (1798)
• Philippines
3 Mar 08
The best decision ever? I think I haven't still made one. Few of these decisions does not made big impact in my life. So, I guess, I haven't done one yet.
The best decision so far that I can remember is choosing to go forward amidst all the failures I had in the past. It's the choice of running even if it's risky that counts. That I think made my little successes in life.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
4 Mar 08
Hi there jeanniemay! I believe that could be the best decision that you have made. There are not many people who are able to take risks and are finding it really hard, sometimes refusing to move on whenever failure comes. Thank you very much for your response.
@jeanniemay (1798)
• Philippines
6 Mar 08
My pleasure.. thank you very much!
It's a good affirmation to continuing life forward when strangers value what you have done.
Thanks again!
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
10 Mar 08
You're welcome, too. Yeah. sometimes it's funny how even though it's rare, that I value a stranger's opinion. I guess because he or she is neutral, doesn't really know me and is giving his or her opinion without any hint of being biased. God bless and have a nice day.
@positiveminded1977 (7072)
• India
8 Mar 08
The best decision I ever made in my life was to live life according to my own terms, to do exactly what I want as long as I was not hurting anybody, and to stop bothering about what other people thing. A tough decision to take and tougher to keep, but I am sticking to it. Cheers.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
8 Mar 08
Hi there! I agree that that's a really great decision. It's hard to stick to it but still, the results are priceless. It means actually "living" your own life. Others fail in doing that by letting other people make decisions for them. Thank you very much for your response. :)
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
11 Mar 08
Dear Nanayangel,
Decisions in my life I had taken many and hope if God permits I am also waiting to take the most crucial decision in my life. I am waiting for the court order according to which I could take a decision that matters relationship with my daughter who is with her mother whom I had departed and the case is in court. So I am waiting for the crucial decision in my life.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
11 Mar 08
Hi there! That is indeed a really big decision that you're waiting for. I am hoping for the best. Thank you very much for your response. God bless.
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@mgpivy (25)
• China
12 Mar 08
Decisions consist of your life.But some decisions are your willing,some ones are your sadness.I think my each decision is right to my life.Though some decisions did not fit my life now,but they fitted that time when I made these decisions.So I think they are very right.
If you always think your decisions are wrong,blame yourslfe ,you will lose many choices.
Do you think so?
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
12 Mar 08
Hi there! I think that you're right. If you will always look back to the decisions that you made with regrets, you will never enjoy your life. Thank you very much for your response.
@Nicky1987 (31)
• United States
11 Mar 08
i think the best choice i made in my life was choosing my bf. he is so loving and kind
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
12 Mar 08
Hi there Nicky! I agree that it can be a really tough and a really important decision, choosing your partner. It can be a life-changing decision, actually. Thank you very much for your response. It reminded me how I made the best choice when I married my husband. God bless and have a nice day.
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
5 Mar 08
Decision is what decides who you are now..either taken by you or your parents..If you are happy and satisfied with your past then you start feeling that you had taken a right decision long back but if it is otherwise then you think otherwise..Your past experience can help you take a great decision in future ..My decision to take psychology as my subject was I consider as my best decision ever..
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
6 Mar 08
Hi there Sonia! I agree that letting others decide for you is still counted as your own decision because you let them do that. I'm glad that I have no regrets whatsoever. Psychology is indeed a nice course. We have a psychology subject when I was in college and I really enjoyed it. It's really interesting and I even considered shifting to Psychology too because of how much fun I had with Psychology- the subject. Thank you very much for your response.
@scanzhizhi (66)
• China
7 Mar 08
so far,i have not found my best choose,but i have make a lot of important decisions,such as whether go to work or go on for my dream of higher degree,when i graduated from the high school and got the bad mark,which suggested there is no college can recieve me,i had to choose whether to give up my college life or review a year for the next chance.and so on...
because i have not leave the college,i dont kown which choose is the best!~
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
8 Mar 08
Hi there! Thank you very much for your response. I hope that you'll make your best decision soon.
