Can You Give Me Your Suggestion

India
February 17, 2008 10:22am CST
My friend is in love with one girl. She also loves him. The problem is that her parents are going to get her married to another guy soon. My friend does not know wat to do. Can you give him a solution?
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6 responses
• India
17 Feb 08
tell ur frnd to talk to the girl otherwise it will be too late for them
• India
17 Feb 08
ok
@Darkwing (21583)
17 Feb 08
This is always a very difficult and sad situation. I've seen it so many times before, but quite honestly, if she is part of a culture which believes in and practices in arranged marriages, then I'm not sure there is anything your friend can do, bar having a word with somebody in the church, or sitting down with her family and having a chat with them. Brightest Blessigns.
• India
17 Feb 08
ok.. thank u for ur suggestion..
@subha12 (18441)
• India
19 Feb 08
i think in taht case you friend must have a through talk with his GF. If this girl also love him, she should first talk with her parents. if she can make her parents understand, then your friend can approach her parents.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 08
Move on. mostly part it will be failed. It's not as simple as romantic movie. The girl will face huge burden from the relationship. She will need to choose at last, we can know who she is going to choose lately.
@nilouette (632)
• Philippines
19 Feb 08
Pre-arranged marriage i suppose. It's hard if your fighting with tradition, but if its not tradition, then he can always follow his heart to where his happiness leads him. Cause if you love somebody else and not the one your going to marry then i don't think the marriage will last that long...
@Swaana (1205)
• India
17 Feb 08
Do your friend's family know that he loves this girl? Does that girl's parents know that she is in love with your friend? If both the parents know, have they agreed this love or have disagreed. But from what you say what I could guess is either the girl's parents dont know that she is in love with your friend or they dont agree this relationship. But if your friend's parents have agreed to this love, why not ask your friend to talk to his parents and take them to the girl's house and seek for marriage? This is the best way that could be done without hurting others. If your friend's girl friend have not disclosed about the relationship to her parents then it is going to be a tough time, she may also say that she just moved with your friend as a friend and there is no special feeling for him. He should be ready to face all these things.