I'm going through a very expensive divorce

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I have been separated for 2 years. I filed for divorce 3 years ago. I have 2 young children one with autism. My husband has done everything you can think of to make this litigation more difficult and as long as possible. Depositions, custody evaluations, employability evaluations, computer experts and lots more! He's still not done! he is asking for another evaluator because he is not happy with the report of the first one. The essence of this litigation is the custody of our children. He is very sneaky. I found that he had a spyware program installed on my computer since the year we got married and I didn't know about it until recently. So now we have to have a jury trial! I am a teacher and he is trying everything he can to ruin my job as well. He basically is trying to say that I am not appropriate with the minors! Because of the seriousness of his accusations I had to go through a lot to defend myself and to prove that he is lying. Fortunately I have succeeded so far but as a result I have a huge debt to my attorney. More than 1.5 times my yearly salary. I don't know how I can get myself out of this debt. The divorce is not final yet so I still have hope that the judge will make him pay for everything that he put me threw but what if he doesn't?