i am single

lavin - its me when i was wit my friends in beach
@nomoso (652)
India
February 19, 2008 6:50am CST
hey is being single a wrong thing? often i feel my life is waste if i am single..few years back i din feel this... but now since my friends have girlfriends ..i think i feel this and i am not able to come out of it..
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@ellie333 (21029)
19 Feb 08
Being single isn't wrong, sometimes you may wish you were in a relationship, but it isn't wrong. Many people in relationships wish they had stayed single as in many their freedom is restricted, whereas you are free to do what you want when you want without having to consider a signicficant other. I am single again now but was in a realtionship up until about two weeks ago. I felt my wings had been clipped and am enjoying my new found freedom. With others though they feel alone if single. It is a matter of choice and sometimes situation, but which ever way it is not wrong. Ellie :D
@nomoso (652)
• India
20 Feb 08
hey ur comment makes me feel good..
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@ratyz5 (7829)
• Philippines
20 Feb 08
Maybe you could select ellie333's response as the best one you got while your feeling good about it ^_^
@nomoso (652)
• India
20 Feb 08
thanks for ur response again...i like ur comment
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@mnvamsi (539)
• India
28 Feb 08
hey don think like that .. think of your responsibility and you will find some work if u find work u will be very busy to handle things..
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@nomoso (652)
• India
28 Feb 08
hmmm i am doin things without concentraton
@marciascott (25554)
• United States
20 Feb 08
Hey friend nothing is wrong with being single, live your live and have fun, you halve a long way to go, so just enjoy life while you can.
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@ellie333 (21029)
20 Feb 08
Absolutely, life is to be enjoyed not worried over. Ellie :D
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@kiran1978 (4137)
• Australia
26 Feb 08
Being single is definately not a wrong thing at all. Enjoy being single while you are young, 21 years old, you still have your whole world ahead of you. There will be plenty of time to meet the perfect person for you. Take your time to find the right one, don't rush it. I have been in relationships most of my life since I was 13 years old, the longest i have had being single is about 9 months and I am now 29 years old. If I could turn back time in the past I would have not rushed into some relationships and enjoyed being single more. So since you are indian, are you planning on having an arranged marriage?
@nomoso (652)
• India
26 Feb 08
my parents want me to have arranged marriage but loving a gal and having good knowledge about each other is more nicer na..and having a honeymoon after becoming intimate is really lovely..i hope for that but i don't know what god has decided..
@nomoso (652)
• India
26 Feb 08
i think lovin a gal and getting married will b nice but my parents want to me to have arranged marriage..its all in gods hand..i cant decide..right now i am single
• Philippines
8 May 08
Being single is a personal choice. It has its advantages and disadvantages. While you're still can, weigh your options. It's quite hard to start a family later in life.
@nomoso (652)
• India
9 May 08
hmm s...thanks for ur comment..
@ericajoyce (1748)
• Philippines
7 May 08
Hello nomoso. I dont think being single is wrong. First of all being single is fun. You get to know yourself more and respect yourself more from your past relationships that didn't work out. I had been single for at least a year and a half. I had learn to respect and love myself which I haven't done when I was in a relationship. Enjoy being single you dont know what you're gonna learn from yourself.
@nomoso (652)
• India
8 May 08
hmm thanks for your idea but isn't it frustrating to be alone when others are in pairs.. but i think i am speaking stupid but still i feel like i am desperate to be in pair..
• Malaysia
27 Feb 08
you can still enjoy life when you're single, there's nothing wrong with that. sure, everyone needs someone but you gotta let nature takes its own course. go with the flow. you'll find someone sooner or later. till then just be happy and continue doing the things that you enjoy :)
@nomoso (652)
• India
27 Feb 08
hmm but i am enjoying as a single right now.. may be will have to wait to c what happens..
• Kenya
22 Feb 08
Being single is not wrong. Everything has its own right time. Don't be pressured into going into a relationship just because your friends are in one. Take your time and move at your own pace!
@nomoso (652)
• India
22 Feb 08
i was happy being single but i do want a relation so that i experience that part of the world.. i am single now...so its fun too..
@ayou82 (3460)
• Philippines
19 Feb 08
well being single is not so bad you just enjoy your time being so.. when the right time comes for you you wont able to do all the things that you wish to do when youre single..life is so great so just enjoy it..love is always around so dont worry too much about it..