Are Women more interested in a guy that can father a Child

United States
February 27, 2008 2:40pm CST
I have a son and he is 11mo old. i am with his mother so sorry to lead on the women that will respond to this. i recently had a conversation with one of my friends that since my girlfriend and i had our little bundle of joy. girls have been checking me out alot more.
6 responses
@kiran1978 (4134)
• Australia
28 Feb 08
I think alot of girls are attracted to men with little babies. As they can see how caring a guy can be when they are looking after their child. It also shows lots of their positive qualities such as responsibility, protective over their child etc. So yes girls may be checking you out more, plus they are probably clucky over your little son too.
• United States
28 Feb 08
I heard this line years ago and it stands so true. Any man can be a father, but it takes a real man to be called daddy. And yes We do tend to look at men more when they have a child. I know I do. My son father bailed as soon as I became pregnant with our son. Which is ok, everything happens for a reason. My son is now is now almost 7 years old and does not have a clue who he is. So yea me I generally do look at guys who have kids more. It shows that they stood up for their responsibility and are doing what they have to do.
@smacksman (6053)
27 Feb 08
Yo stud! How's it hanging? haha You are right. You have proved your tackle works and so you are one up on a lot of others out there. Why risk getting involved with a man who does not have a track record? I mean a third turn out to be queer and another third fire blanks so what is a girl to do? Naah - just joking! It is just one of many times you will be tempted astray. Just smile sweetly and thank them for the very tempting offer but explain that you are a one girl man. (That will drive them even more crazy!)
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
27 Feb 08
Well not me, I like men that shoot blanks. I like men that have no kids. I like men that don't want kids. My hubby and I have no desire for children and one of the things that attracted me to him was that he was free and untethered.
@dvschic (1795)
• United States
27 Feb 08
it really depends on the guy, if he's lame and ditched his kid, HELL NOOOOOOOOO would i want to date a single daddy? HELLL NOOOOoo but to see a cute guy taking care of his kid and being good to him sparks the desire in some women.. since they want that for themselves down the road too
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
27 Feb 08
Lots of guys CAN father a child. Maybe they are showing more interest in you because you have a child. I think woman may be interested in a guy who WANTS to father a child. WANTS to be part of a family unit. There is a huge difference between being able to do something and wanting to do it. You already have. Congrats to you and mom. Enjoy it, it goes by quickly.