Why does my boyfriend never think for me ?

China
March 1, 2008 6:01am CST
I fell in love with him for three months,and I love him very much ,I care for him a lot.But ,it seems that he seldom think for me.It is me always ask him to eat,it is me always ask him to have a walk .He never care for me and never think from my point.I am really very sad.Should I break up with him?But I really love him.
5 responses
vhayste
@vhayste (115)
• Philippines
1 Mar 08
Talk to him, girl. Heart to heart. Tell him what you feel or what you're expecting from him. At least you both should be aware of each other's needs and expectations. Don't break up with him without having a good talk.
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coly20032003
@coly20032003 (428)
• China
1 Mar 08
Yes,maybe what you say is right.We seldom have communication,and he is a very shy boy,I am an open girl.Sometimes ,he even don't let me hand him because he is very shy,which make me very angry.Maybe I need to talk to him.
vhayste
@vhayste (115)
• Philippines
1 Mar 08
Communication is the key. Maybe you're just misunderstanding him or there's a possibility that he is just too awkward to express his feelings.
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coly20032003
@coly20032003 (428)
• China
8 Mar 08
Thank you .And now things have already turn well.This teach me to be heart to heart with each other and ofen have communications with each other.This always works.
manigandan18
@manigandan18 (243)
• India
1 Mar 08
hey no no first trust ur love and then try to show ur affection on him then he ll understand your feeling ..if else cut him
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coly20032003
@coly20032003 (428)
• China
3 Mar 08
Yes,maybe you are right,I will have a try.Wish there is hope we will come back to the moment before~
chiyochan
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
8 Mar 08
boys show their affection in a much different way. if he doesnt do the things you do for him, it must have been shown in other way that only you can tell. if you are to leve him for these reasons, you should think it over as you might be going back to him if you say you love him. you are frustrated cause you dont feel him love you the way you wanted to be love.
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yannycui
@yannycui (376)
• China
1 Mar 08
Tell yourself he doesn't love you and leave him to move on. If a man doesn't care about you, he doesn't love. It is obvious. Don't fool yourself. Marry a person loving you, and don't marry a person you love. Marriage is a life-long career. Can you stand him for such a long time?
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coly20032003
@coly20032003 (428)
• China
3 Mar 08
But a few months ago,he did said he love me,and I also love him very much,no matter how he treat me.I think I will wait for some time and have some communication with him.
shrutisharma86
@shrutisharma86 (25)
• India
1 Mar 08
may be this will work...try to explain him ur status and see what and how he responds with an unfair mind. It matters a lot how much ur partner loves u so dont compromise with ur life for urself if you really want to compromise something then do it for the one who really cares for you at least he worth it.
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coly20032003
@coly20032003 (428)
• China
8 Mar 08
Ok,I think I know what I should do from now on.Try to understand him and give him more support .Maybe communication is just the key to solve the problem.Love is two people's thing,and I think he will konw this.