should you stay with your man when he pressures you to do it?

United States
March 3, 2008 9:56am CST
I mean, you love him, and you dont want him to leave, but you just wish he would stop nagging you. I know some say, if you love them you would, but what do you do in that situation? i can't lose someone over that, but what do you think people should do in that situation. EVERYONE PLEASE LET ME KNOW!!!!!!
5 responses
@jc00771 (155)
• China
4 Mar 08
feeling being prssured to do something is not a good feeling, unless you think later and find you really want that.so if you really can't accept something you just don't accept.when you feel you can't stand something,you just think if you would like to do that just for your love,and which is more important to you, then you could make a decision --leave him or bearing the pressures which you do not want,if you can't pusuade him not to do that.
@Ravenladyj (22992)
• United States
4 Mar 08
" know some say, if you love them you would" and to ppl with that mentality I would say they are ignorant and foolish..... If a man LOVES YOU he WOULDNT pressure you, end of story! and if he DOES nag then he doesnt really love YOU...make sense?
• China
4 Mar 08
In my view,I can not bear such a man.At first,if i find he like nagging,i will not fall in love with him.A relly man should not always nag others.
• Ukraine
3 Mar 08
I think you shoudn't. You will find someone else, life is full of surprises, and someone will be better for you then he was.
@chiyosan (29389)
• Philippines
3 Mar 08
he's been nagging youin to doing and not doing things... that should be an issue... he's got to show some respect for you. I know you don't want to lose him over this "little" thing.. but it can get worse and soon you will realize he would start controlling your life... well im just giving you a scenario here. Best is for you to talk to him, seat down and talk.. seriously and make sure he understands you perfectly that you respect what he wants and he's got to respect what you want too right...? its give and take.