tiny problem need advice someone please help me!!

@xlinzixx (510)
March 3, 2008 2:20pm CST
im not one to share my problems with people because i dont like to moan on but i have a major problem with my boyfriend and i realy dont know what to do. im a glamour model and hes a photographer and thats how we met weve been together about six months now and since we got together weve done loads of photo shoots together and in my opinion got some realy great images from them. He's always told me im his favourite model to work with. i have portfolios on quite a few modelling sites and i have all the images hes took of me on there and hes on all the same sites as me but in his portfolios hes not got a single picture of me on there n i dont know if im being petty but i dont understand why he hasnt and its realy starting to get to me. i want to confront him about it but he can be quite touchy about things like this and i dont want to get into a huge argument with him wot do you's think i should do? am i just being petty?
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@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
3 Mar 08
Well you should definitely ask hom just to clear the air since it's obviously bothering you. But it's probably something innocent...like he doesn't want to appear to be playing favorites since you're his girlfriend.
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@xlinzixx (510)
3 Mar 08
i do confront him about it i just dont want to start a full blown argument incase he thinks im being silly
@lankapo (44)
• Malaysia
4 Mar 08
wow this is really a big problem your are really upset that he did not put your picture in his portfolio just ask him why. he maybe have a good reason about it mind to share your picture with us :)
@xlinzixx (510)
4 Mar 08
ive added a pic :)
• Malaysia
4 Mar 08
wow that;s really hot red mind if I put you in my portfolio hehehe lankapo.com
@subha12 (18441)
• India
5 Mar 08
I think you both should have a clear talk on this. suggest that you both can be there in each others. so it will be both good for you as well as the situation will be eased.
• United States
5 Mar 08
this doe not seem like it could be possible but it could be he don't want to do this for some fear of losing you. it sounds bizaarro world but it would be like you had good restaurant or bar and he did not want to visit you there...i think. i don't have a picture of my wife in my wallet..i don't have anyones picutre there but I have her on the internet..but I would think he would but like you said he is touchy. Most true artist are eccentric about their work. Also my wife is a perfectionist and any job must be perfect or it does not cut the mustard with her..I am not this way but I have learned to be a better worker because of the fact I don't want to lose her and it is something that makes her happy and I never had any control over her anyway...just being honest..its been 22 years but we are content with the way things are..but its never easy...never Thanks for the nice pictures and post..Looking forward to see you and your b/f as everyone loves a LOVE STORY
@xlinzixx (510)
5 Mar 08
wow thats interesting way to think about it youve definately gave me something to think about
@mckay62 (17)
• Philippines
5 Mar 08
no man is an island, you just cant solve problems alone but in my own opinion you just take it litterally youre his number one model means youre number one in his heart and spirit so dont think about it ok? always trust what your heart says