In life,more sorrow or more happiness?

China
March 4, 2008 9:17am CST
Sometimes,I find that life is beautiful,life is colorful,life is full of interesting things and full of happiness,but ,instead,more often ,I feel that life is so boring,I am so tired,and sometimes sorrow and sadness come around me,I don't konw what I live for,I am really very confused,could anyone tell me?
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@quentina (109)
• China
5 Mar 08
I have the same experience.In fact,moods are temparory and vary every day.Try to keep optimistic and positive.One sentence:"I am still happy,even though i am suffering from sorrow".Actually it depends on our mood and attitude.When we are facing the difficults,try to change a attitude.remeber"Failure is the mother of success".In fact failure is not a bad thing in our life.sometimes we don't care for too much the period,we should really care for the eventual result.lol..
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@klaudyou (501)
4 Mar 08
Well, I couldn't tell your case exactly...but I met people with the same problem... Maybe you don't have enough passions, I'll say! Maybe there are not many things to keep you busy, I mean something you really like...more than a hobby... Well, if you want your life to be better from this point of view....try to think about yourself and find those two or three things you really enjoy, and then go on and do the things you like more time then you usually spend on hobbies. Try to find joy in life, because life has great potential of bringing wonderful things...you just have to look in yourself and then persuade life and time to give you what you really want.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
4 Mar 08
It depends on our moods and feelings. There are people who call happiness as unhappiness. They can never be happy with even good thigns happeninging to them. I feel in life both happiness and sorrow are going to be there most of the time, in equal ratio but then depending on our moods, (good mood means you see a problem as a challenge) bad mood - a problem as big hurdle, hence more sorrow.
@deserve40 (1656)
• India
4 Mar 08
Well the life is like that only. Sometimes very beautilful and colourful and sometimes very boring and hopeless. However, I believe that it all depends on us as to how we try to take our life. It depends on our point of view. If we are optimastic, we will find opportunity in every defeat or every problem. Life is game with great prize but it is with a great prize for the people who can play it right. So we must not be afraid of the problems and face all the problems bravely. If we can meet with all the challanges of the life with right spirit then life is really beautiful and enjoyable.
@dtroas (479)
• United States
4 Mar 08
We make our lives what we want them to be. Please do not think I am preaching to the choir, I have had alot of unhappiness in my life. But when I look it it there is nothing that I can not change for myself. Do things that makes you feel good. Listen to music. Paint a room sometimes colors can make you feel better. Open up your windows and let the sun shine in. Think outside the box, You can over come unhappiness .. I did!