Now I think maybe friend is more important than lover~

China
March 4, 2008 9:39am CST
Because sometimes friend know you more than lovers and I think the relationship between friends can make me feel more comfortable~
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@youless (87142)
• Guangzhou, China
5 Mar 08
It is hard to tell which is much more important for your life. If I have to select one of them, then I will choose a lover. After all, my husband is the one who can be with me all the time no matter what happens.
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• China
8 Mar 08
Oh,really?This is also very good.Maybe when you are in different time you think about things differently.When you are satisfied with your relationship,this is enough.
@yannycui (377)
• China
5 Mar 08
Totally agree with you. I don't know why I can't handle the relationship with partner well. I value the friendship . We share ideas, take care of each other and help each other when whoever is down. Friendship lasts longer than marriage.
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• China
8 Mar 08
Yes,you are right.Sometime ago I don't value the friendship so much and spend all days with my lover,later on my lover left me but the old friends I neglect for a long time are supporting me a lot.I really appriciate my dear friends.
@tonniek02 (457)
• United States
4 Mar 08
Yes, I think your right. For some reason when you get into a relationship you find yourself not saying the things you would say to a friend. I alway told my daughters. Don't destroy a friendship with a relationship. I was always a fram beleiver that when you take a friendship to a relationship it never last. I would never date a friend when I started dating. And I was always truthful with them when they would ask. I alway told them I value our friendship and I don't want to ruane it with a relationship. One day my oldest daughter started dating a guy that was a friend frist. And after they broke up they were no longer friends ether. My daughter then understood what I ment, when I said "Don't ruean a friendship with a relationship"
• China
8 Mar 08
When I break up with my boyfriend, at that time I really konw what friends mean to me,they care me all the time,no matter how little time I spend with them .Friends are lifelong,and I think I will value them from now on.